Okay, my mattress is just not working out for me and I'm re-thinking it all. My recent trip to my sister's home where I slept on a "regular" mattress for 2 nights and woke up with NO back pain, is making me realize I need to make changes. (I discount the theory that it was better just because I was "on vacation" because actually it was a stressful situation.) I'm going "back to basics", trying to think outside the box springs.( I know - bad pun.) Especially those of you who have had or do have springs under your latex, please opine: 1) What is the best platform for a latex+springs mattress in your opinions? Currently I am using a Sealy box springs (about 8 years old I think) which is made with some more-or-less heavy gauge wire on top, not wood. I always figured the platform or box springs really doesn't matter. But is it possible this is the problem - or a problem - with my mattress configuration? I have been wondering if I should build a wooden platform like the one Laredo created in this thread (has photos!). It's all wood with slats. OR, should I buy a new box springs. If so which one? I think most SCo's now use boxes that have wood slats on top instead of wire. Right? So if I should buy a "regular" box springs, which one? So should I use wood or old-style box springs as a foundation for my springs+latex mattress? What are you latex+springs folks using for your platform and why? 2) Springs. I'm convinced my Englander 12.5 gauge springs are too firm for me and don't comform to my body. So which springs should I try next? I'm still trying to find out what kind of springs my sister's guest bed had, that I liked. I may never find out, based on how hard it is to get her to go in there and look, and she's 2 thousand miles away... or she may have looked and not found a label. So I'm interested in your opinions. I think the idea of pocket coils sounds good in theory and I liked my old Simmons for about 6 months and then it either gave out or the springs migrated. That was about 12 years ago. I don't know what the problem was but it really hurt my back after I moved it to a new apartment. I think the springs migrated. I believe Budgy said in another thread that I can't find, that Simmons springs don't migrate now but they are now too stiff or something. I don't know if he answered my question: "So who does make good pocket coils now?" as I can't find the thread. (Sure wish this forum had the ability to Bookmark threads! Guess I'll have to start just putting them in my Browser bookmarks.) Or should I even try pocket coils? Someone said that offset coils from Sealy are pretty good but then didn't I read that they don't conform very well to your body? Or am I confused? So many springs, so little time! So all of you who have springs and like them, which ones do you like and why? 3) For the interim, I am thinking of trying a softer latex layer on top of my configuration. Should I go with the 14ILD Talatech or the 24ILD natural Talalay?
Someone at a foam place (who does not sell it) recommended I try a 14ILD but I am wondering if that would give NO support and be worthless to me. Does 14ILD Talatech provide enough support to not just be as useless (to me) as memory foam? I know the 32ILD Natural Talalay is too firm for me. It feels like it's pushing back against me too much and causes me pain. So is a 24ILD going to be enough softer but still supportive? I like the support of latex better than anything else. I recently tried my HR foam again and ecchh! it feels just "dead", more like Dunlop. Yet Talalay feels like it pushes back too much. I can't win... (Maybe the softer Talalay is the answer?) Thanks for your help! This message was modified May 24, 2010 by jimsocal
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I might also through the 19 ILD Talatech into your choices, and compromise between soft and medium. I worry a bit that the 14 would be too much like memory foam. I have not tried 14 blended, but I did try 15 Celsion/latex once and it seemed like it would not provide a lot of support. In terms of box spring, I don't have the expertise to really opine. My gut instinct is that most of the newer box springs just provide a firm platform and don't make much difference. Maybe on the upper end innersprings with "real" springs in the box springs it does make a difference. On the springs themselves, I guess your first decision will have to be pocketed coils vs. interlaced. If I recall your description of your sister's mattress correctly, I think that was probably interlaced. I worry a little bit about doing surgery on a pocketed coil, because you would be reducing the structural integrity a bit, and that might allow for more movement. Not sure though. I have never had a pocketed coil, so can't really opine on them. You may have to go back to the basics and try some at a store. Macy's had a fair selection when I was looking. Try the firmest to get a sense of just the springs. From US-mattress I gathered the following info. on Sealy springs, from cheapest to most expensive. For twin size: Cheapest 216 13 gauge Bonnell Next cheapest 234 12 3/4 gauge Bonnell Preferred 420 14 gauge Posturetech (offset??) Reserve/Signature 448 14 gauge Posturetech (offset??) Note that the Preferred on up have "edge support" which might make the effective coil count even higher (there are no coils on the outer edge of my Reserve). Sealy has a big jump in coil count when you go from the firmer Bonnell to their Posturetech. Not sure if any would be right for you. I would think that if you are looking for a bit softer gauge offset, then maybe try the Preferred? At the time I was looking, I think that definitely felt a bit softer than the Reserve. I know wonder if I would prefer the slighlty softer Preferred, because I need a fair amount of foam to soften up my springs for sidesleeping. You may have to gather info. on other makers and try to figure out somehow what is the best type for you. I don't think most of us will be able to help much, except maybe Budgy. Good luck. Keep us posted.
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jim, when I first started looking for latex, I went and tried out what Ikea had set up on their floor. I really liked the feel of the top of the line latex bed they have (which is a 6" Dunlop core, I think). It felt nice and springy yet supportive, so I thought maybe it was set on top of the Euro-slats. But no, she told me it was a box spring.I slid my hand under the mattress, but I couldn't really tell what the deal was. So, what I'm saying is this: if you are near an Ikea, maybe go see what they've done. Maybe you don't want to buy from them and maybe they don't sell it, but it might help you find some ideas. This message was modified May 25, 2010 by cynicaljones
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You may not have the room (or the inclination) to do this, but if you can, try sleeping with your mattress directly on the floor for 2-3 nights and see if it helps or hurts the situation. This should remove any sag that may be resulting from the age of your box springs, and would pretty well simulate what it would be like to sleep on a solid or perhaps even slatted (like Laredo's) platform bed. I would think that if your 8 year old box springs have gotten a little too saggy in the middle, you could have the best mattress in the world on top of it and it would still be, to use the language of my kids, a total "fail". |
im with Pianoman here (also love the use of the word fail lol). I think its worth trying before you spend any more money on changing something else, its the best empirical way to see if the boxspring is causing issues for you right now. |
I have a twin mattress that is my "experiment" - trying out all sorts of things on it. I sits on an Ikea box spring (bonnel coils). I felt it was lacking support on the box so I moved it to the floor. When I put it on the floor it felt considerably firmer than on the Ikea box. In fact it was too firm on the floor. So I have it back on the box but I slipped a folded towel between the mattress and box, positioned under my ribcage. This gave it the little extra support I needed for that area without making it too firm under my shoulders and hips. Just goes to show how a box spring/foundation, or even a folded towel, can make a significant contribution to the whole setup. |
As some have suggested, maybe try the mattress on the floor or possibly swap the box spring with your wife if hers is different. The box spring seem real firm if you lay on just it?
I think you have mentioned that you prefer your wife's mattress. What kind of springs does it have? This message was modified May 26, 2010 by sandman
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Thanks for all the suggestions. Sorry I have not been here for a day or two to respond. cynical, we do have an IKEA but it's about 45 min. away. However I will try to get over there some day in the near future. pianoman and budgy, yes I think trying the mattress without the box is going to be my first step. I have always felt that this couldn't be the problem, but I guess it could be, after all, couldn't it? So I'll try that. DiankeK - An Ikea box springs with Bonnell coils? Did you write that correctly? That sounds very interesting and might be something I'd like to try. Can you tell me the name of it? Cost? etc. As to pocket coils: Budgy - are there any pocket coils "out there" that would be any good for mattress surgery? I would try to leave the mattress alone and NOT do surgery of course, but with the pu foam in it, I am sure I'd probably have to do surgery sooner or later (probably sooner). The idea of foam around the edges I think would make a twin bed too small. It's already really too small but I don't have room for a bigger one. So if I were to buy pocket coils I'd have to get one without any - or with very little - foam encasing along the edges. And as someone pointed out, doing surgery might not work on pocket coils. Budgy, what do you think about all this pocket coil stuff? Are there any good ones and are there any I could do surgery with? If not, then what - in your opinion - type of springs would be the next best thing for me. Right now my mattress feels very good when I get into bed and I get a good 6 hours of sleep but then the last 2-3 hours starts to hurt my MID-back and by the time I get out of bed, I am just plan sore all over my back more or less from top to bottom but not really lower back. I've been experimenting with various configurations. I even went back to a 1" layer of HR foam but am now taking that back out. I also incorporated a 3/4" piece of very soft memory foam just to soften the whole thing up, and actually it does seem to help and since I'm not getting LOWER back pain I may stick with that either on top or on the bottom next to the springs... The other layer(s) has been my 1" 32ILD natural Talalay and my 3/4" latex mystery Talalay - maybe 28-32ILD maybe Talalay or Talatech. And sometimes with my 2" fluffy wool topper and sometimes without it.
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Yes, I wrote that correctly although I misspelled Bonell. Ikea always likes to change things so the box I have no longer exists, at least not under the name I have. But if you look at their 2 Sultan box spring foundations they currently have, they both have Bonell coils. |
Jim: I think any non-foam encased pocket coil will work fine for mattress surgery. |
What type of memory foam are you using? If it is the fake blue Venus, it probably does not provide much support. I have a blue piece from overstock (not called Venus but I think it is the same maker, same density) and it provides less support than the Sensus. I think the Sensus is okay (especially for pressue point relief), but I don't think it breathes as well. So, I use some further down in the stack. Sensus or 14-19 ILD latex will probably be an improvement over the fake blue MF. I am also not sure you unknown piece of latex is the best quality. It could be all synthetic. You may want to upgrade that to 24 ILD 100% natural. I hate to suggest these things after all the money you have spent, but it is possible you need to upgrade those pieces. Right now you are not playing with a full deck (of quality layer options that is)
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Hey sandman, my wife and others may well think I'm just not playing with a full deck! My fiesta platter may be short a couple of tacos! I appreciate your thoughts about my stack, though. The latex seems to be good quality. The blue "Venus" memfoam is junk. I hated it from the day I got it from Ostock (well almost that day, anyway), and I only use it sometimes because it's the best 1" thick piece I have, and the 2" thick Sensus I have is just too thick for me. I sink down into it and it hurts my lower back. Now: I did try my mattress without the box springs last night, just flat on the floor. I must say that all along I was very doubtful that the box springs was the problem. And when I pulled the mattress off last night and looked at it, I thought, "Hmmm. It looks to be in very good shape, no dip at all, and the wire across it seems to be very thick steel, so I doubt that is the problem." But in the interest of science, I tried sleeping without it, anyway. Owwww! My back killed me. Just TOOO firm without the box springs! I was actually surprised because I thought the box spring wasn't bad, but I also thought it wasn't good, just neutral. But now I see that the box springs does provide a bit of "give" and so it's a good thing. So back to the drawing board... I'm going to take the 1" layer of HR foam out that I had tried - out of desperation - for a few nights. I tried it in various locations in the "stack", and I think all of it was worse than without it. So now I'm going back to something like I had before, because although it wasn't GOOD, it was at least better than this and gave me about 6 hours of good sleep before starting to hurt my mid-back. I am thinking my next move may be to buy a 19ILD latex layer. Should it be one inch or two inches? I'm thinking one inch or 1.5" because like I said, the 2" Sensus is just too much softness for me. A 24ILD might work, but not sure that would be that different than the latex I have - the mystery piece - which I think is about 28ILD. And my funds are very limited, my apartment is already over-full of useless foam, and so I want to make sure my next purchase helps... But really, I don't know that any of it will... This message was modified May 27, 2010 by jimsocal
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JIm, have you tried the 2" of Sensus under your 2" of latex? 2" MF probably too much for you, but if you have never tried it that way, maybe worth a shot. So, have you concluded your box spring is okay? I assume a wood slat one would be pretty firm, maybe too firm given your floor experiment? On your next piece, it is a judement call and only trial and error will really resolve it. SLAB does not show 1.5" on their website, and Sleepez does not show 19ILD (or less). Either one may be able to custom order. Foambymail has 20ILD naturual talalay at a good price, but I am not sure I trust their ILD ratings. I think others may have said they could not tell a difference between the soft and firm? SLAB does allow returns within 90 days (less shipping both ways and maybe a handling fee?), so you may just have to take your best guess and gamble on something. It does seem that replacing the fake Venus and/or HR foam will be an improvement. The 19 ILD vs. the Venus will give a firmer more supportive feel, but not sure if it will be too firm. |
Thanks for your thoughts, as usual. Yeah, I"ve tried EVERY configuration! Yes, the box springs is definitely fine. Very thick firm steel wire and no dip that I can feel or see. So I put it back under me because the floor was too firm. No platform bed for me! I know now that this type of box spring is good for me, at least with this mattress. Right now I can't afford to buy a topper anyway, so am just making do and playing around. I may try the Sensus again, on the bottom layer as you suggest. I did try the Venus as a bottom layer recently and it seemed to be okay but still did not give me 8 hours of comfort. Now I have the Venus back on top with the 2 latex layers under it and it's better than it was but again, still, not 8 hours of comfort. Oh well. It is what it is. |
Sandman, this is after only one night and my experience with any memory foam is that after a few nights it sometimes requires removal for my comfort. But anyway I took off the blue fake Venus foam last night and added it (1") to my wife's bed because she suddenly out of the blue complained of her mattress being too firm. So I replaced my 1" Venus with 2" of Sensus last night. Lo and behold I slept good and woke up without back pain. IF ONLY THIS WOULD LAST! (But I have to be pessimistic based on past experience.) Anyway, thanks for the tip. If it does fail on me, then hmmmm? Maybe I could try just one inch of Sensus... or go back to my idea of buying one inch of 19ILD Talatech or natural Talalay. |
Do you have the Sensus below the latex? Hopefully it will keep working for you, but many hopes have been dashed before, so who knows. The Sensus does have more density/support than that fake blue stuff, so it is possible that it will keep working. It should provide more comfort, if that was causing the issue. 1" of Sensus and 1" of 19 ILD would provide a bit more support. I am now using that combo. at the top of my stack (19 on top). That seems to provide enough support and comfort for me, but I don't have the same back issues as you. If the 2" Sensus stops working, maybe you can find a giant meat slicer and cut into 1" thick slices! Good luck with that. I have thought at times of manually shredding the memory foam or latex and putting it a topper cover, so I could add or take out to get the right feel (kind of like you can do with a shredded filled pillow). Never have done it though. The pieces would probably shift around to much anyway. This message was modified Jun 1, 2010 by sandman
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As suspected the 2" Sensus quit working for me on the 3rd night. I am not sure if this is because it "gives out" or what. That is the only explanation I can think of. But memory foam always works that way for me. I had it on top; I'm now going to try putting it under a layer of latex before I give up on it completely. I do think a 1" Sensus would have better chance of success for me. |
You may want to try it under both pieces of latex. I think it will have less impact that way. 1" would be better along with something firmer. |
Jimsocal, did you ever try the Sensus below the latex? How is your mattress working lately? |
Hi sandman, Yeah, I tried it under the latex and it hurt my back. Unfortunately my wife is using our 1" of Venus so I couldn't try that instead (though I have tried it before, maybe not in this exact manner, though). So I took the Sensus off and now I'm using my 2 x 1" layers of latex with an old 1" layer of very low density cheap memory foam on top just to soften the latex, and my wool topper on top of that. It's not great but I do get about 7 hours of good sleep with it before it starts to hurt, that's an hour more than I got with the previous configuration. Of course I would be surprised if that does not break down and revert back to 5-6 hours of comfort in the very near future. I really want to buy the soft latex (19? or 22? ILD) to put on top instead of the cheap memory foam. BUT I just had to spend $560 on my car, so that puts the purchase of my 22ILD latex that much further away... But all in all, I am very happy to be getting 6-7 hours of good sleep! Before when my shoulder was very sore from my last car accident, I really was only getting 3-4 hours of good sleep per night due to tossing and turning from pain from my shoulder. Now that it's about 90% healed, I can sleep without pain in my shoulder. Now the only issue is the same old "whats the best mattress" issue. ... And I'm about 80% convinced that what I really really need is new springs (offset type) under my foam! But again, I just cannot afford to spend $ on my mattress right now. This message was modified Jun 15, 2010 by jimsocal
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Hi Jim, Just read last few entries of this post. I have lower back lumbar issues from injury, am both a side and back sleeper and have been down a $5-6k road of mattresses, latex and MF toppers from Foambymail.com, overstock.com, and Sleeplikeabear.com. Sorry for the rambles but don't want to spend the time to make this a treatise. The back/side sleep and lumbar problem seem nearly insurmountable. Add to that, for me, Mem foam sleeps hot, and while it feels good at first when I lie on it, when I sleep on my back, I wake up in severe pain. I interpret what happens is that my back "feels" that my butt is not being supported, so it "works" to hold up my butt and is tired as hell when I wake up... in agony. So, I have been trying to achieve "just enough" padding so that I just "bottom".... so my butt feels supported... without pinching pain on my hip and shoulder while on my side. Right now I am doing fairly well on a Serta Perfect Sleeper (continuous coil that back pain folks need) Auburn Firm (close to "a rock") ..... with 2 x one inch Foambymail's 1 inch 19 ILD latex. I am quite sure it is dunlop, and is quite firm, because it has somewhat random bubble pattern. True talalay will have very fine and uniform rubbery feel and texture. I find that dunlop with the 1/4 inch large holes (FBM) sleeps a good bit cooler than talalay... which had smaller holes. I found talalay to be "bouncy" which I did not like, and dunlop to feel more "natural" and less like a trampoline. In my search, I have tried at least 20 different pads from Overstock.com.... some latex, some supposed "sensus" ( knock off of lesser quality but OK) , in varying thicknesses 1-2". I learned to buy 1" pieces, and stack. Tried various layers of latex and the "sensus" and other 4 lb product. For me, MF starts out feeling good, but not by morning. MF doesn't do its melting thing if it is not close to your skin, so putting it under latex just crated a sagging, no support feel for me. Two one inch "sensus" on my very firm Mattress was pretty good, but not as good as two x one inch 19 ILD latex from Foambymail.com. I thought 1 inch of softer than what I had.... 19 ILD dunlop one inch x 2.... would be "just what I needed", on top of 1 " of the 19 ILD dunlop.... So I tried a 1" 14 ILD "very soft" latex topper from sleep like a bear ... only source I found for an ILD advertised as less than 19 ILD. It was true talalay, slightly softer than the FBM dunlop, but it didn't help me... and cost $172 including shipping. My cost to ship back was $14 from Atl to California, and they charged me back about $32 of "shipping" from the $172 (queen) original puchase, refunding me approx $140. That means they took $16 profit/restock fee.. which I am fine with. I found the 2" latex 19 ILD from foam by mail to feel a good bit firmer than two 1" pieces. I have ordered a "mattress pad" which has 1 1/4" of polyester fill from cuddledown.com in ME,but it hasn't arrived yet. They were recommended here or on another blog. They sell a number of different "pads" (cotton top, different comfort layer fills, and elastic skirt to handle a 20" mattress). I am optimistic that a little surface softening from one of their products will finally solve my problem. I will report back on my results. shovel
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Thanks for posting that info. I am interested in some of those foams and this might help me decide which to try first (when I get the $ to do so). It's late so I'll read your post more thoroughly tomorrow. |
Just wanted to note that I've been sleeping pretty good with the following configuration: From bottom up: 12.5 gauge springs (Englander) 3/4" latex somewhere around 28ILD to 32ILD 1" (fake from Overstock) Venus memory foam 1" 32 ILD natural latex No wool on top, just sheets. This is the best configuration I've had all year I think. I would still like to try an 18 or so ILD latex but for now I'm sticking with this until it doesn't work any more. Note that I only have 2 and 3/4" of foam on top of the springs. |
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