Can we talk about pillows?
Mar 29, 2009 6:52 AM
Joined: Mar 10, 2009
Points: 28
My build-it-myself latex mattress will get ordered when it is warmer here in the frigid north, and I can air out all the foam layers out on the porch. In the meantime, can I get some pillow advice? (Oh no, after months of agonizing over the mattress choice, now I must do the same with pillows....?!)

I have slept with feather/down pillows forever, it seams. Stuffed quite plumply. I liked being able to add and subtract filling until it suited me. (Yes, it's messy. Do it outside.) I used to buy those cheaply priced sets of 4 king pillows and sew my own high thread count cotton covers and made 2 king pillows with leftovers to add, if needed. Now I find that I am flipping my pillow a half dozen times a night (yeah, that's how often I'm awake) to get the fill back under my neck where it has squished out.  Sounds like I need a contour neck pillow, but one person's thickness and firmness could be another persons nightmare, and you can't do anything but stick it in a closet, give it away, or toss it , and try another one.

So I am wondering about shredded foam. Most of them these days claim to be memory foam. (Do the properties of memory foam still exist  when it is shredded?) I know that is the cheapie way to go, but it is also an adjustable way to go. Or, in the case of molded memory foam, or latex, any suggestions for densities, etc? I am broad shouldered and side sleeper exclusively, so need plump pillow.

What is your experience? I am hoping a different pillow might go a long way in helping my shoulder pain and frequent waking. What do you think?

Boy, do I envy the people who can sleep on anything.........
Re: Can we talk about pillows?
Reply #4 Mar 30, 2009 2:35 PM
Location: Yosemite area
Joined: Sep 10, 2008
Points: 249
I love this site...I can always find someone talking about something on my mind.  I've been having the same problems with pillows.   My down pillow went flat.  I bought a new shredded foam pillow at Target, but it is too fluffy somehow(side and back sleeper with broad shoulders AND narrow ribcage, OW!).  So I pulled another down pillow out of the closet that is much fluffier than the other one, and inside the case under the pillow put my little sample piece of Venus memory foam(about 1" thick, 12" X 12").  That was the ticket!  This memory foam was a sample piece(free!) from Rocky Mountain Mattress company, and I've used it for so many many things.  I love that foam.,  This particular foam does not rely on heat for softness and it breathes so doesn't build up heat like regular memory foam.
Might try it!
Kait
Re: Can we talk about pillows?
Reply #5 Mar 30, 2009 11:47 PM
Joined: Aug 31, 2007
Points: 793
I had to buy 4 different Latex Pillows from Overstock to find one that is lower than the others that is perfect for me in comfort.  But it is my favorite pillow and is so much like the pillow that it replaced that died years ago. I can only sleep on a latex pillow since I always have since I was 5 years old and my doctor told my mother it would help my allergies. I tried to like other pillows but they are not comfortable to me.  But some latex pillows are too hard and some are to thick.