Frustrated Newbie
Sep 6, 2010 12:43 AM
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I'm sure I should be diligent and read every post on here, but after a week of doing my research I'm starting to get frustrated. I love forums and this seems to be one of the best for mattresses.

With this topic post I am hoping to get a summary of the mattress types and brands that have been spoken of most highly on this forum. I know this topic is like politics, everyone feels strongly about one thing vs another without an overall concensus and I know the typw of mattress depends on the person, but I feel like someone familiar with these forums could maybe narrow down my search and provide some advice.

Basically I'm 28, living with my fiancee and thinking about consciously purchasing a mattress for the first time. We have a Sealy Posture Premier (somewhat entry level model) from 2003ish. I have never slept soundly and dream of getting consistent good nights of sleep. I have sporadic neck/shoulder and lower back discomfort but it's usually better after sleeping so I don't think the mattress is necessarily the culprit. After going to a few stores I am leaning towards a slightly firmer mattress and my fiancee towards a softer one (she is very small and light if that makes a difference) but generally I think we both just want comfort. I sleep on my back, her on her side and we both toss and turn. I am a naturally hotter person and can't sleep if I'm hot. If I do turn on my side my shoulder feels jacked up within minutes although the postition feels comfortable.

I want to get moving on a new bed but I feel stuck..Everything in the store feels reasonably comfortable, web reviews contradict each other..I just need a starting point, a roadmap. I'm even into an evolutionary approach where I start with something and add on as I go.....I just want a new bed badly and I'm fearful of throwing my money away.

Once again, I apologize for asking such a flat out newbie question. I've read the buying guide here and reviews all over the web and I feel less confident than when I started.

 

Thanks in advance!!

-JT

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #3 Sep 6, 2010 11:58 AM
Location: NE Ohio / NW Pennsylvania
Joined: Aug 26, 2010
Points: 62
I have really given up on all of the major brands, because they are all too much foam piled onto a spring, and are single side, and I want an old fashioned 2 sided innerspring mattress with not frills and years of durabuility.   People are ditching their big name sets after only 3 years or less.   Complaints abound about Simmons Beautyrest softening up too much within weeks.  I'm looking at The Original Mattress Factory, Carlisle Bedding, and Imperial Bedding, because those are the smaller companies in my region.
Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #4 Sep 6, 2010 12:00 PM
Location: NE Ohio / NW Pennsylvania
Joined: Aug 26, 2010
Points: 62
sager66 wrote:



Yet another "consensus seeker", apparently looking for someone to blame if their selection turns out to be deficient . . "not MY fault, got bad advice" rationalization.


What are you, another bitter old fart with a bad attitude?    >;-D 

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #5 Sep 6, 2010 12:05 PM
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Well, you are going to find a lot of opinions here and you are going to have to try some, read about what people say and have found out, and then go in a certain direction.  There are a lot of folks here that like latex, some that like memory foam and others who want coil springs and a combination of those here.  I think one theme that goes throughout, is that when you go cheap from many mattress stores, you get what you pay for.  You can also spend a lot of money and end up uncomfortable too.  There are back, stomach and side sleepers....and those all affect what kind of mattress and softness levels. 

My personal opinion is that you should research latex, and memory foam but this is just my experience.  I've had many, and like many here have said, there is no one answer for everyone and a bed can't necessarily fix a medical problem....so keep that in mind.

Good luck on your journey.  Many of us are still exploring and trying different things but many have sworn off the chain mattress stores and what they sell....I being one since my last mattress lasted about 1 year before it started breaking down and hurting my back more each night.  I'm personally on the latex journey and pretty happy with where I am ending up but a little poorer.  I might have gone a little cheaper than I would have liked so the more $$ you have you can maybe get the best for you.

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Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #6 Sep 6, 2010 12:15 PM
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I think you will find that most of the major brands don't hold up over time (like your current experience) because of the cheap PU foam they use on top.  That leaves a few other main options: 

Tempurpedic (if you like the memory foam feel - most other memory foam beds are lesser quality so beware),

High end innerspring (like Royal Pedic),

Lesser known local brands (like Gardner or maybe Orginal mattress factory - but make sure they do not use cheap PU foam (ideally none)),

Customized latex (sleepez, flobeds, foamsweetfoam) if you like that feel or one that you piece together yourself (sleeplikeabear, foambymail),

or mattress surgery (cut off the top of your current mattress or another innerspring take out the cheap PU foam and add a few inches off soft to medium latex (15-32 ILD range) and maybe 1-2" of decent memory foam).   If you go the front forum page, you will see "highlighted threads" at the top for some threads on mattress surgergy and other topics.

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #7 Sep 6, 2010 3:25 PM
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Thanks everyone. Definitely not looking for concensus, more of a summary of the most popular mattress options on this forum, which I got thank you. Sorry if my initial thread was demanding.

I'd like to keep my budget within ~$1500, which likely eliminates tempurpedic (worried about heat anyways) and a high end innerspring like Royal Pedic.

Mattress surgery sounds like something I'd consider and then bring up to my fiancee who would then flip out.......not ready to go that route yet.

So I think either a latex mattress or a decent basic innerspring that we can experiment with using toppers.

 

We both like the idea of being able to customize our respective sides of the bed, as TC2334 said we are likely opposites (sleep-wise):

Seems like sleepez allows for his/her customization plus the ability to exchange layers if we find we don't have the right combination. 8500 is within price range. Can I use current boxspring? Order foundation from sleepez? Put slats across my bedframe?

Could also try Ikea latex mattress and add toppers if necessary, but not a lot of reviews about their latex beds.

If we go innerspring route, can we use different toppers on each half of bed? Seems like that would be easier with king-size mattress (buy 2 twin size toppers) but we want to stick with queen. What innerspring is popular here for use as a base to add toppers to? (Sorry that may be another complicated question)

Forums are awesome! Thanks so much guys, I certainly appreciate folks spending their time to help me.

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #8 Sep 6, 2010 3:30 PM
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Oooh, looks like Gardner is nearby. I live in central Mass, is this the Gardner Sandman spoke of? http://www.gardnermattress.com/products.asp
Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #9 Sep 6, 2010 4:02 PM
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jtpoulin wrote:

Oooh, looks like Gardner is nearby. I live in central Mass, is this the Gardner Sandman spoke of? http://www.gardnermattress.com/products.asp


Yes, I have heard that they have pretty good quality, and made more of the way they use to make mattresses.  I don't live in that area, so I have never tried.   You probably should check them out.   Just try to avoid anything that has polyuerethene foam in it (at least as little as possible, it doesn't last).


 

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #10 Sep 6, 2010 4:09 PM
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Yes, but Gardner Mattress is not located in Gardner, MA...haha.   It's named after the original owner I believe.  If you deal with them, go to the main store in Salem, MA!   That's where the owner is and they have better prices there also.  I got my latex mattress there but they also have several other quality innerspring models.  (hint...the owner will negotiate sometimes). Ask for Gardner Sisk.   
Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #11 Sep 6, 2010 4:17 PM
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From here: http://www.gardnermattress.com/process.asp

seems like all the processes do involve poly foam (except the latex). Maybe it's something you have to specify that you don't want?

Re: Frustrated Newbie
Reply #12 Sep 6, 2010 4:35 PM
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Points: 966
jtpoulin wrote:

 

From here: http://www.gardnermattress.com/process.asp

 

seems like all the processes do involve poly foam (except the latex). Maybe it's something you have to specify that you don't want?


Yeah, I just noticed that on the website.  A bit dissapointing, but they don't use a whole lot (some S brands use inchs and inches of the stuff).  1" would probably not make much difference  The "Quilted" mattress looks to be the worst offender.  I am not sure why they use it at all other than they are trying to keep the cost down.  Maybe they have a one without or you can request without.  Not sure what the dense polyester is, but I don't think that would lose support like a PU foam.

The pocketed coil does not use PU, just has polyester pad over the springs (I think that is okay).  Not sure if you want pocketed coils, but that one sounds pretty comfortable with the latex on top of the coils.
 

p.s. there are different qualities of PU foam as well.  Some are denser and longer lasting than others.  So, 3/4" of high quality  would not necessarilly be a deal breaker for me.  I bought some HD PU foam for sofa cushions, and it seems to be holding up okay.

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