Frustrated w/Flobeds configuration - advice?
Feb 11, 2011 5:46 PM
Joined: Feb 11, 2011
Points: 5
We bought a flobeds v-zone recently.  Me firm over x-firm, her medium over firm, <snipped due to inaccuracy>.  I am 5' 10" 165lbs, in my 40s, and very fit (a P90X'er).  I'm a back and sides sleeper. I haven't had a good night's sleep since we got the bed a month ago.  When I lay in it, it never quite feels comfortable, but the key thing is that after 5 or 6 hours I wake up and my lower back feels sore (even though it's in very good shape), back end uncomfortable, legs start to ache a little... it almost feels more like a nerve thing that makes me want to squirm and change positions.  Our old innerspring was not horribly comfortable either, especially laying on my sides w/pressure points in the hips, but once I got to sleep I slept significantly longer and more soundly than in this flobed.

Flobeds (who have been very nice) told me to try sleeping on my wife's side to see if I need something softer. I've tried that for 4 nights now and don't really feel any different when getting up... same sore spots.

Anyone (particularly those who are trim & fit) gone through something similar?  What did you do?  I basically just want a bed where I can sleep 7-8 hours without waking up feeling pain.
 

This message was modified Feb 12, 2011 by johann
Re: Frustrated w/Flobeds configuration - advice?
Reply #18 Mar 12, 2011 11:02 AM
Joined: Feb 11, 2011
Points: 5
Well it has been another month of experimenting and I still can't find a winning Flobeds solution.  Below are the top-to-bottom combinations I have tried, all of them for at least 4 days (for vzone, Flobeds said that the only layers that matter are the 3 ones covering shoulders, lumbar, and rear/thigh, so only those are listed).

  1. Convoluted topper, Vzone SMS, Firm, XFirm  (original setup)
  2. Convoluted topper, Vzone MFM, Firm, XFirm
  3. Convoluted topper, Vzone SSS, Firm, XFirm  (basically the equivalent of having a full soft layer)
  4. Convoluted topper, Medium, Firm, XFirm  (swapped the vzone with my wife for one of her layers)
  5. Convoluted topper, Firm, Medium, XFirm

If I sleep beyond 7h a night, all of them lead to a sore lower back. It's hard to describe how it feels, but almost tense. Of the various options, I liked the "feel" of option 3 the best, especially on my side, whereas option 4 probably caused the least back pain. Option 5 did not improve anything on option 4 and it's made sleeping on my side a lot more uncomfortable.  Any other options to try first? I thought one person mentioned to try it without the convoluted topper, but I'm not sure if it would make much difference (?). I guess right now I'm just wondering if I should send this bed back and maybe just get an innerspring with some type of soft topper, as I can have a sore back with a $1,000 bed instead of a $3,000 bed.