help building foambymail mattress
Sep 12, 2011 10:00 AM
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I've never had a good mattress, so I'm just going for it and finally ordering one. I found foambymail when researching memory foam- this has obviously lead to questions about latex.

Just for backround, I sleep most comfortably on a futon. I slept on a Tatami with a futon pad for a few years, but eventually I began having some pain in my hips and lower back. Switched to my girlfriend's spring mattress for the past year and hated it. Just moved again and ended up with a platform bed and a futon, and I am so much happier than on the spring mattress. The futon, however, is supposed to be temporary until I order my new mattress.

Knowing I like a firm mattress, I decided to order the 5" Lux-HQ foam base (2.8lb density, 50 ILD) with 4" of 5lb memory foam. Then, I read that 4" can feel too "soft" and that in my case the extra inch wasn't worh an extra $50. I decided to downgrade to 3" of 5lb memory foam.

I almost placed the order this morning before deciding that I needed to do some more research. I'm worried that the memory foam will be too soft, and the lux-hq base too firm, and that i'll just sink through the memory foam into the hard base. Furthermore, I'm concerened that the memory foam isn't really what I want at all, and I would be happier with latex.

I've considered putting an intermediate layer between the base and the memory foam, or just ditching the memory foam completely and getting the lux-hq base with 2" of latex.

Ultimately, I don't know how any of these materials actually feel, and need some expertise. Please help!

FYI, I'm 6' tall and weigh 180lbs, and do not generally have pain caused by my mattress, just poor sleep. Also I sleep on my back, but usually fall asleep/lay on my side- I think this is what was causing hip/lower back pain on my tatami.

This message was modified Sep 12, 2011 by ivandrocco
Re: help building foambymail mattress
Reply #9 Sep 15, 2011 9:59 PM
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SleepLikeADog wrote:

Sall, are you saying more than 1 inch of memory foam over a firm 5 inch poly base would be too soft for you, or do you mean as a layer in a latex mattress creation?


I meant that it would not give support on a latex mattress and 2 inches felt mushy and I just sank into it causing me back pain.  Maybe "soft" isn't the right term.

Re: help building foambymail mattress
Reply #10 Sep 16, 2011 1:58 PM
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I have a really awesome platform bed, it's two large pieces of particle board with teak trim that screw into two rectangular block bases. A free-rolling drawer on wheels fits between the base blocks, and a big teak headboard mounts to one end.
Re: help building foambymail mattress
Reply #11 Sep 21, 2011 8:12 AM
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first impressions... very very impressed.

 

the foam feels very high quality, and i'm very happy with my choices. I swung by a mattress store to feel the tempur pedic stuff, and the 5lb FBM feels every bit as firm. 

I think it's going to take some getting used to, and it's still gassing off, but it didn't bother me much. Sitting on the edge of it right now... its very very firm.

I would not reccommend less than 5lb foam except as a topper. Also, 4" seems way overkill. I don't even feel like i'm bottoming out 3" into the base foam. I was surprised how impressively thick the only 8" mattress was. Would recommend FBM to anyone else. Mattress looks and feels great, it's all there.

Re: help building foambymail mattress
Reply #12 Aug 25, 2012 3:54 PM
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Ivan,

 

Thank you for posting this. This is the EXACT setup I am trying to go for.

I have an Ikea mattress, that has started to sag in 1 year. I weigh no more than 96lbs and I am a side sleeper. 

I am going to go ahead and get the LUX-HQ base from FBM. Thanks for helping me decide. 

This message was modified Aug 25, 2012 by rajju077
Re: help building foambymail mattress
Reply #13 Sep 2, 2012 2:32 PM
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One thing about FBM, make sure you calculate what the weight of the mattress should be and then weigh it to make sure they sent you the right foam. They have been known to send foam different than what was ordered. I use FBM because they have the best prices, and plan to order more foam from them, but I always weigh it out to make sure they sent what I paid for.