lower back pain from flobed
| I've had my flobed for 31/2 years now. I absolutely loved it when I first bought it but over the years the "elasticity" has weakened and I now find I have severe lower back pain. Is this common for the latex to loose it's elasticity so quickly? I was under the impression I would have this bed for 20 years when I bought it. When I lay in the center of the bed (where neither my husband nor I sleep) it feels great on my lower back and there is still plenty of firmness to support my lower back. I tried to contact flobeds directly but their store isn't open yet. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
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Hi everyone, thanks for your comments. I just contacted flobeds (spoke to Dewey) and they gave me a "test" to perform (i.e. different camera shots) that I need to send in an e-mail to them. He said it is most likely my bed cover because that tends to get matted down but I have my doubts. I hope I'm wrong. I'll let you know how I make out. Kait I know, my back pain has gotten worse and worse over the last couple of months. I've been going for a massage every 2-3 weeks. I got one last week (Sept 2nd) which helped but my back hurt again the next morning. On Sept 3rd I went on a 4-day cruise to Canada and had the best night sleep I had in a loooong time. After the first night my back only hurt a tiny bit. The next 3 mornings my back pain was completely gone. We came home last night (Sept 7th) and this morning my severe back pain was back again. This leads me to believe the problem is my bed. I've been struggling for months to figure out the source of my back pain. eagle2 I bought the air mattress right from flobeds. My layers consist of (1) flobeds air mattress, (1) latex core layer, (1) top latex layer (the thin one with waffle look). Here's a linkwww.flobeds.com/air/index.htm. I later added (1) more layer of latex (which I removed after about a week) because it was firmer the closer I got to the air mattress. I also flip my layers (except the air mattress) about every 6-9 months. |
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I have faith that flobeds will work this out with you. I've read TONS of positive reviews about them and I, myself, had experience with returning a mattress to them under the sleep trial. I think if you are reasonable with them and give them a chance to figure out what is wrong and work with them, they will come to a solution with you, as they are very customer service oriented. Let us know how it works out! |
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love2cruise wrote: Hi everyone, thanks for your comments. I just contacted flobeds (spoke to Dewey) and they gave me a "test" to perform (i.e. different camera shots) that I need to send in an e-mail to them. He said it is most likely my bed cover because that tends to get matted down but I have my doubts. I hope I'm wrong. I'll let you know how I make out. Kait I know, my back pain has gotten worse and worse over the last couple of months. I've been going for a massage every 2-3 weeks. I got one last week (Sept 2nd) which helped but my back hurt again the next morning. On Sept 3rd I went on a 4-day cruise to Canada and had the best night sleep I had in a loooong time. After the first night my back only hurt a tiny bit. The next 3 mornings my back pain was completely gone. We came home last night (Sept 7th) and this morning my severe back pain was back again. This leads me to believe the problem is my bed. I've been struggling for months to figure out the source of my back pain. eagle2 I bought the air mattress right from flobeds. My layers consist of (1) flobeds air mattress, (1) latex core layer, (1) top latex layer (the thin one with waffle look). Here's a linkwww.flobeds.com/air/index.htm. I later added (1) more layer of latex (which I removed after about a week) because it was firmer the closer I got to the air mattress. I also flip my layers (except the air mattress) about every 6-9 months. This whole business about the air mattress as a support layer has me concerned. I had not seen this mattress on their web site before. My concern has to do with the air mattress leaking air. I believe I read where the new air mattresses have an auto-matic pump that is supposed to keep the air pressure at the selected level. If you have a slow leak and a defective pump that can not keep up with the leak this could cause problems I would guess. Then the Talalay may not be able to give you the proper support your back needs. I do no care for the concept of the airbed as a support layer. It does not seem like a good idea to me. But as Jimsocal has said. Dave Turner, owner of FlowBeds, is a good guy and will “do you right” I do believe. |
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Thanks for everyone's replies. I sent my pics via e-mail yesterday and am still waiting to hear back from Dewey. Eagle2, the air mattress I've referred to is on this page www.flobeds.com/air/index.htm My air mattress is NOT leaking and is completely full of air. I confirmed this as I took each layer off to take pics for Dewey. I bought the air mattress because I thought it would provide me with more control over my firmness (i.e. leave air out for less support, fill up for full support) while the latex layer reduces pressure points. Last night I switched out my air mattress layer with the extra layer of latex (only medium firmness) I had bought a few months after I originally bought the bed. My layers last night consisted of 1 firm (this is the layer I had used for 3-1/2 years so I moved it to the bottom because I suspect the "elasticity has loosened") and 1 layer of medium (like new) along with the thin top layer of latex. Unfortunately I still woke with back pain. Has anyone tried the "super firm" latex layer from flobeds? If so, any thoughts? |
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love2cruise wrote: Thanks for everyone's replies. I sent my pics via e-mail yesterday and am still waiting to hear back from Dewey. Eagle2, the air mattress I've referred to is on this page www.flobeds.com/air/index.htm My air mattress is NOT leaking and is completely full of air. I confirmed this as I took each layer off to take pics for Dewey. I bought the air mattress because I thought it would provide me with more control over my firmness (i.e. leave air out for less support, fill up for full support) while the latex layer reduces pressure points. Last night I switched out my air mattress layer with the extra layer of latex (only medium firmness) I had bought a few months after I originally bought the bed. My layers last night consisted of 1 firm (this is the layer I had used for 3-1/2 years so I moved it to the bottom because I suspect the "elasticity has loosened") and 1 layer of medium (like new) along with the thin top layer of latex. Unfortunately I still woke with back pain. Has anyone tried the "super firm" latex layer from flobeds? If so, any thoughts? I have been told by another supplier of foam that they quit using Talalay in their mattresses because they had so many returns due to the material breaking down over time. This is the only place that I have heard this. FlowBeds in fact went exclusively Talalay some time ago and they sell a lot of mattresses. I have also been told, by yet another manufacture, that you always want to have a very firm layer on the bottom, whether it is a Talalay bed for a Dunlop bed. I have also been told that 100% organic natural latex will “soften up” over time. So the idea of having your firmest layer on the bottom with a firm or medium firm layer in the middle would make good sense to me. I’m going to receive my new combined Talalay and Dunlop mattress in about a week or so. After I have slept on it for at least a week I will have a much clearer idea about the realities of foam. But only someone like yourself who has actually used it for several years can speak to this issue with any clarity. Personally, I still do not care for the idea of an air mattress as my bottom layer, or any layer for that matter. One thing about the mattresses, that folks like us are purchasing, whether it’s FowBeds, Savvy Rest, or Sleep EZ, or some other company that lets you construct your own mattress, we have the luxury of undoing the zipper and making changes. Try that with one of the big S. brand mattresses. We could do as Jimsocal does of course, and perform mattress surgery. I believe Jim has more intestinal fortitude than I do. |
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Eagle2 wrote: <quote>I have been told by another supplier of foam that they quit using Talalay in their mattresses because they had so many returns due to the material breaking down over time. This is the only place that I have heard this. FlowBeds in fact went exclusively Talalay some time ago and they sell a lot of mattresses. I have also been told, by yet another manufacture, that you always want to have a very firm layer on the bottom, whether it is a Talalay bed for a Dunlop bed. I have also been told that 100% organic natural latex will “soften up” over time.</quote> Thanks for the info Eagle2. It's interesting you just wrote this because yesterday Dewey told me that they've "never had an issue with the latex breaking down". This was making me start to think that I was nuts, LOL. Dewey did contact me today and made me an offer to buy a firmer layer (at a discount) to see if that helps. Flobeds is definitely trying to work with me but I'm a little hesitant. I don't want to have to buy new layers every couple of years because I think they lost their firmness. |
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love2cruise wrote: Eagle2 wrote: <quote>I have been told by another supplier of foam that they quit using Talalay in their mattresses because they had so many returns due to the material breaking down over time. This is the only place that I have heard this. FlowBeds in fact went exclusively Talalay some time ago and they sell a lot of mattresses. I have also been told, by yet another manufacture, that you always want to have a very firm layer on the bottom, whether it is a Talalay bed for a Dunlop bed. I have also been told that 100% organic natural latex will “soften up” over time.</quote> Thanks for the info Eagle2. It's interesting you just wrote this because yesterday Dewey told me that they've "never had an issue with the latex breaking down". This was making me start to think that I was nuts, LOL. Dewey did contact me today and made me an offer to buy a firmer layer (at a discount) to see if that helps. Flobeds is definitely trying to work with me but I'm a little hesitant. I don't want to have to buy new layers every couple of years because I think they lost their firmness. I probably should not have included this statement by a young man who has only been working for this company for a year regarding the Talalay breaking down. I have not heard this anyplace else, and in fact, in the bed that I have just purchased and will receive next week, the top two layers are medium firm Talalay. I will know a lot more about both the Talalay and Dunlop hundred percent natural organic foam after I have tested it. I would be much more inclined to go with Dave or Dewey Turner, as they have a great deal of experience and I feel are honorable men running a legitimate mattress business. As you’re finding out there willing to work with you. Had I not got myself into a crack purchasing my mattress, a very convoluted affair that I will not bore you with, I would have probably purchased from FlowBeds as I feel they are very legitimate and have a return policy. It says something to me that in the last seven years they have had zero complaints at the BBB. I believe this factor alone will keep them on their toes as they value this record and do not want to lose it. Just work with FlowBeds, I think they should be able to work out your problem. Be grateful you have a company that is willing to do this after 3 ½ years of use. Hopefully, if I have your kind of difficulty, the company I am purchasing from would do the same for me 3 ½ years into the purchase. This message was modified Sep 9, 2009 by eagle2
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I know what you mean about people thinking you are crazy....I kept changing out beds, refusing to sleep on a practically new bed, my husband started calling me the Princess and the Pea. BUT MY BACK HURT. Just because his didn't did not mean I was crazy. It IS your mattress. My low back pain was so chronic it was awful. I went to Denver and stayed at the Brown's Hotel and Spa and had wonderful sleep. I stayed three nights. The first one healed my back by 80%. The next night I was 100% perfect. The third night was a blessing. I wrote down what kind of bed...it turned out that it had offset coils and somewhat minimal padding...which set me on my course of what I needed to buy. It also had real springs in the box spring...which I now have. My back is much improved and I do not have the chronic pain anymore. I came home from my trip to Denver and refused to sleep on our bed even one night. I knew it would be painful...so that night out came the Exacto knife....and we did surgery. I was that sure that the bed was the issue. I never could get that particular bed just right...it had pocket coils which I don't like the feel of. Too much foam on top, too. My step daughter and her boyfriend have it now. Still looks great...but sleeps awful. Just like the S and F bed did. Looked great...but...what good is a bed that causes pain? Kait |
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That's so weird that you just posted here Kait. I was just about to do a search of your posts to find out if you ever mentioned (in any of your other posts) what kind of bed you bought. If you don't mind me asking, what kind is it? I'm seriously considering the bed I slept on during my recent cruise. The cruise line actually has a website set up so you can buy their "specially designed" beds because they got so many compliments on it. I posted on a cruise forum yesterday to see if anyone actually owns it and how it held up over time. I really don't want to be buying a new bed every 3-4 years. It can get very expensive. |
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Of course I don't mind! Short version is that I pieced together that the bed I liked had offset coils, coil box springs, and minimal padding on top(the exact padding I never did determine, as the bed is no longer made and the comparable one that they do make costs way more than I could spend). I already spent thousands of dollars on beds, plus I was not believing in the bed industry much at that point. Anyway, I got a local bed manufacturer to make it for me the old fashioned way. He got the springs I wanted, used insulator wire and burlap, layered cotton batting on top, then a few inches of foam(which was the big mistake, it was a lot firmer than the store's floor model, so I added a fiberfill topper and made it okay for my shoulders). What I should have done was have the top made in a duvet style, so I could use/move foam around. Anyway, knowing who made the bed means that I can have it worked on if and when I want. Anyway, that was me, worked out affordably, and it has been nearly a year since I brought this bed home. Typically a bed would only last me three months. Pretty sad. I'd be happy to tell you the long version if you write to me on the site privately. I can laugh now... Kait This message was modified Sep 10, 2009 by Kait
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