I switched my layers around this afternoon, because I'm feeling like the soft is too soft for me. But now I'm concerned about this. I mean, I'll sleep on it and try it, but it feels really squishy now that the the middle layer is softer than the top one. How does work, really? Will I get enough support, or is this likely to be worse? |
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Ouch! I don't think this configuration is working for me. I'm fine until I go to turn over in the middle of the night and realize just how much my lower back hurts. I don't think there's enough support there. I think I'll try sandman's suggestion for a night or two. Maybe I need more firm layers but with a thin soft topper.
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Using the medium over the firm, will be even firmer than using XF on the bottom. So, it will be interesting to see if you like that. 6" does not give a lot of depth, so that might make it a bit less comfortable. |
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I dd not get a chance to change layers around yesterday, so I slept on the M/S/F configuration again last night. I woke up at 3AM with terrible low back pain. So I just now took off the soft layer altogether and will try a night or two with just M/F. Hopefully, from there I'll be able to determine if I need a XF or another F layer. And if that's too firm, then a 1" to 2" soft or medium topper would probably help, right? |
Do you think you mattress cover is really really tight? As in had to stuff the latex in to fit? If so that could make it firm and no small back support. Is the mattress cover kinda stiff? This is when I had lower back pain/small of back pain. I would call Sleepeze and tell them the situation and ask if they have a 2" layer to replace it with. Could be the cover is to tight. Or you may have to put the 2" over the whole mattress and put something soft and thin over that. I guess it could be too soft, but you never said if you sink in too much, only you know, and if so then okay you need firmer. How are your shoulders? Are you a side sleeper, or only back? Keep us posted, and good luck. What is your weight I forgot, if I ever knew. This message was modified May 30, 2010 by Leo3
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Leo, the cover isn't too tight. It was perfect when I switched the layers around last week, but when I went to remove the soft today it was a little wrnkly, like it ws too loose. I don't know if that is the problem. I'm tall and weigh about 190 lbs. give or take a few from day to the next. I do think the bed is too soft, or just not supportive enough in the bottom layers. Also, to complicate things further, I sleep on my back AND both sides. I was going to change my order to M/F/XF or upgrade to a 13,000, but by the time I could call my bed was on the way out the door. |
Your choices are soft (22-24 ILD), medium (30-32 ILD), firm (38-40 ILD), extra firm (44 ILD) copied from Sleep eze site for my and your reference.
Can't remember if you have natural or blended. If 2.8" or 3", and if natural a bit firmer. Refresh my memory please. I have 8.5" over a mattress (LOL) so I would bottom out if the layers weren't firm underneath and a mattress. I would definitely call Shawn tomorrow, oops Tuesday (holiday remember) and tell him your weight once again, and your situation. Perhaps you can add another layer and mail back the cover to get a 13,000. Or if they won't do that, option 1 add another layer over the mattress top like Mark has done, and some of us others (me). You are close to my weight so you may need more layers, or firmer layers. but I still would want a comfort layer of 24ILD (S) . Can they do what Flobeds does and request a higher ILD of the top layer? Not sure if 22 to 24 is that big of a difference. But your medium and firm may be the lower ILD's, if label doesn't say, then SOL. I almost think you should try changing the medium to firm, and the firm (MAYBE) to extrafirm. Just throwing ideas out there. Did you read the persons posting under yours, they have a 13,000 and the husband has lower back back, and the wife feels it is too hard. So Princess and the pea. I think they said it is on a box spring. Personally I think you may consider either a Euroslat or ??? It is so hard to figure out for someone else, let alone myself. I know people think I am nuts having a spring mattress and then 8 1/2" latex, but you know what? It works for me. I like the springiness and I didn't like laying anywhere near the hard springs. Do you still have your box springs to try putting the latex on? I was going to say put the S over the F, and then the M for tonight to see how that is. P.S. Put your frame on the floor and see if that firms up the latex and stops your squeaks (LOL). This message was modified May 30, 2010 by Leo3
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I already had the soft in between the firm and medium (med. on top) and that was worse then the F/M/S. I actually did consider putting the foundation on the floor, too. Maybe I will try that tonight. |