Mattress Forum

I want to say pretty close, in that I woke in much less pain. I've been laying on it, reading, off and on this morning to see if it gets too warm. It feels slightly too hard while I'm on my side and something is not quite right while on my back.

I think you are right about wanting an XF layer. Then maybe an inch or two soft topper.

I too had one of those bed metal frames that expanded from king, queen, etc, and we used 4 clamps and still noise!  Do not recommend those, I like a quiet night sleep thank you very much.

I am concerned that the soft layer would not be enough t support the layers above plus me, meaning I don't know that it would help and may cause problems, somehow. I don't know that I have scientific facts to back up my concerns, though.

As for the heat problem, it could have been that I ate too much yesterday and my metabolism was in overddrive.

Yeah, that bed frame is the pits. I paid $60 for it and it's going straight to St. Vinnie's ASAP. I could have bought a set of legs for that money, but, as I said, I didn't want to put holes in the foundation until I knew for certain the bed was right for me. I sat on the beds in the showroom where I bought that thing, thinking they were the same ones.  None made those noises, but they were all bigger beds, so maybe that was why.

I mean put the soft on top, then firm, then medium at the bottom.  No I didn't mean put the soft under anything else, leave it on top.  I don't think you have tried that yet, have you?
 

Are you using a mattress pad that makes it hotter?

Ah, OK. I misunderstood you. I'll try the current configuration for a few days, and then I'll try your suggestion.

The mattress pad is actually more of just a protector,  it's very thin. This one, which was recommended by someone here.

Does the protector come with 4 feet and a baby?  What a funny picture to show the matttress pad, LOL.  I am not sure why you would need a dust mite cover when they claim latex is mite resistant.  Anyway, if you are still hot I would try removing that to see.

LOL. I got that particular cover because it was both thin and water resistant. Also, it was reasonably priced, though I see the price has gone up some.  Plus it came highly recommended by someone on this forum, just can't remember who right now. I think they were showing that you can safely play with unpredictable babies without ruining your bed. I'm surprised they did not also show puppies, kittens and glasses of red wine.

Glad that you are making progress.  Was the foundation still on the floor?  The overheating might have been just a one night thing.  I doubt the air circulating under would make much difference.   But still, probably better to have it off the ground (if possible) eventually.

I think that it will be hard to find a configuration that works for all sleeping positions. So, you just have to pick what works best overall. 

So, you are going to try just Firm over medium (6" total)?
 

Yep the foundation is on the floor, still. I hate the idea of putting it back on that frame, but am not yet ready to drill holes in the foundation. And I also don't want to waste any more money right now. Since I'm probably going to eventually dump the frame, I'll try some padding and tape and whatnot to try and silence it.