Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery / new mattress
Aug 24, 2011 8:46 AM
Joined: Aug 1, 2009
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(Note added in March 2012: Gave up on the old mattress & bought a new one. Added to this thread for continuity.)

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(Note added in Jan. 2012: The topper-search saga turned into a mattress-surgery saga. Mattress surgery details are farther down in the thread.)

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I'm looking for opinions on the next way to tweak my toppers. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Here's the current setup:
Two-year-old 9" high old-fashioned, two-sided (flippable), firm innerspring mattress (full size), on a wooden [correction: wood and steel] foundation; both still in very good shape.
On top of the mattress: 2" 32 ILD Talatech latex topper from SleepLikeABear.
On top of that: 1" Talatech latex topper, 24 ILD.
The 3" of latex are enclosed in a heavy-ish cotton/poly cover from FBM.

Stats: 50-year-old woman, about 5'6", 120-125 pounds; side and back sleeper, but mostly side. A little joint pain in the hips now and then, but no serious illnesses or injuries to work around (knock on wood).

(The 2" 32ILD topper is a new purchase. I read some old forum threads that I'd saved on my PC; waffled between 32ILD and 28ILD; thought about getting an inch of each; but that was more expensive, and I was most worried about getting something that would turn out to be too soft, like my previous attempts, so I went with the 32ILD.)

So:

With just those 3" of latex, I think my hips & back are OK, but my shoulders still get too crunched and I wake up with some arm numbness.

When I add my 1"-thick polyfill fiberbed on top of the latex, my shoulders are good, but my hips sink down a little too far -- because this fiberbed is several years old and has flattened in just the hip area -- so I wake up with some low back pain. (The rest of the fiberbed is still in great shape.)

One option: I thought about getting a 1" 20ILD layer from FoamByMail and adding it on top of the 3" of latex I already have. Recent posts seem to imply that FBM's quality has gotten better and more reliable than when I was here on the forums 2 years ago.  But: Since I pretty much bottom out on the 24ILD layer, I'm skeptical that a 20ILD layer would help or would balance things out.

(If I put the 1" 24ILD layer on the floor, my bony hips & shoulders go right down to the floor. If I fold that topper in half and lie on that, I still go right down to the floor. That makes me wonder about all the posts I see about 19ILD and even 14ILD layers -- I can't quite fathom how those would be useful, so I'm curious about that.)

Another option: Get scrap foam and add some just in the hip area, under the part of the fiberbed that has flattened. SLAB sells some scrap latex of various sizes and ILDs. Maybe something like a 28ILD scrap under the hips would work?

Another option: A 1" 28ILD layer (or equivalent in 100% natural latex) between the 24 and the 32?

I'd like to avoid memory foam for now, because of the off-gassing issue, but won't completely rule it out.

Thoughts? Other ideas?

Thanks!
-- Catherine

Edited to add:
In case it's useful, here's what I've tried before:

1) A thing called "Oodles" that had latex "noodles" in it -- great idea but poor execution. It would have been terrific if it had had at least twice as many baffles in it to prevent the noodles from shifting around within each baffled section. I half-heartedly attempted to hand-sew in more baffles but didn't know what I was doing and the thing is big & awkward, so that didn't work. (I used it on top of the 24ILD topper.)

2) Below the 1" 24ILD topper -- a 2" Dunlop latex topper from Overstock.com, unknown ILD & manufacturer. Wonderful for a while... but then it cratered in the hip area. Did not think latex was supposed to do that, but it did. [Edited to add: this was medium-firm synthetic, or mostly synthetic, Dunlop. Natural stuff would hold up much better, I'm sure.]

This message was modified Mar 15, 2012 by Catherine
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #91 Feb 4, 2012 12:11 PM
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JasonRatky wrote:

"We talked for a bit; I told him about the mattress surgery, about the stack of various toppers I'm sleeping on now, and about the difficulties of balancing support with pressure relief (i.e., if hips are OK, my shoulders get crunched); and he said he wouldn't recommend a latex mattress for me. He thinks I'll do better using latex over springs; and he advised finding a continuous-coil innerspring (with at least 660 coils for a full-size mattress) and *avoiding* pocket coils because they might let the hips sink too far. "

Now that guy sounds like he knows what he's talking about!


He very well may be correct. He also may not be. The ONLY way for Catherine to know for sure is to try a solid latex mattress. If a solid latex mattress does work for her, then life is easy. She's done. If not, then she's back to where she's at now, albeit with the knowledge that solid latex is no longer an option. The truth is, that she'll never know until she tries one. Unfortunately there's a cost involved in trying anything.

I personally have no idea if a latex mattress is going to work for me, other than lying on a few at our local City Mattress store. I did decide to give a flobed a try. If it does work out, then great. I'll be set for the next 15+ years. If it does not, then I'll be in the same boat as Catherine, albeit out $300 in lost shipping costs for the expiriment (more if I perform any core swaps). But I will have the knowledge of knowing for sure that latex is not for me.

The truth of the matter is that no one will know for sure if solid latex works until they try it. I personally love the flobeds model too, since I can try out different firmnesses at a very nominal fee. Several posters have mentioned how they had to do a few core swaps to get their bed perfect. Had core swaps not been available, these people may have quickly given up on latex too assuming latex was not for them.

Flobeds mentions that 95% of their customers are happy with their purchases. There is always a chance that Catherine, you, or I might be the 1 out of 20 people that it does not work for. But as I said before, there is only one way to know for sure, and that is not by talking to a mattress salesperson.

This message was modified Feb 4, 2012 by megalops
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #92 Feb 5, 2012 9:24 AM
Joined: Aug 1, 2009
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megalops wrote:

He very well may be correct. He also may not be. The ONLY way for Catherine to know for sure is to try a solid latex mattress.

Well... of course. Sean was making a thoughtful recommendation, not offering a guarantee.

Based on the experimenting I've done so far, during the past 5 months, I suspect that he is right about my needing springs.

I'm not sure I can find a continuous-coil mattress with a decent coil count & wire gauge (& price); and even if I do find one to try out locally, I won't know if it's the coils or whatever padding is on top of the springs that's most responsible for how it feels.

It's possible that really well-constructed, heavy-gauge pocket coils would work -- something like the expensive GreenSleep systems that Budgy has mentioned -- or that offset coils would work if they're heavier than the 14.5-gauge Lura-Flex coils that gave out. Again, sort of impossible to tell just by lying on mattresses, since they're usually covered with poly foam and quilting. There must be a better way.

 

Flobeds mentions that 95% of their customers are happy with their purchases. There is always a chance that Catherine, you, or I might be the 1 out of 20 people that it does not work for. But as I said before, there is only one way to know for sure, and that is not by talking to a mattress salesperson.

I'm sure Flobeds has great products. It just seems more likely that I'll have better luck with latex over springs -- if I can find a good base. Which might come from a new mattress (which I'd use until it needed surgery) or might come from the mattress my friend is selling (haven't seen it yet).

 

I did move my super-soft latex to the bottom of my stack last night. (Still using the yoga mat and luan for artififical zoning.) I think this arrangement feels better, but I'm not certain. Pretty sure my spine is still nowhere near straight....

 

By the way, I thought the Prana latex mattresses at City Mattress were actually latex on top of poly foam. Am I wrong? Oh, never mind; looked it up, and I see that some of the Prana mattresses are latex-on-poly-foam and the super-expensive line of Prana mattresses are all latex. (But of course they don't give you specs -- not online anyway.) Well, maybe I'll go lie on a few anyway at some point.

 

There is someone in my house who appears to adore soft latex -- my cat has taken a liking to my soft-ish latex pillows. smiley I've been sharing a pillow with her for parts of the past few nights. (Small kitty. And her purring helps me fall asleep.)

This message was modified Feb 5, 2012 by Catherine
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #93 Feb 5, 2012 10:59 AM
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Catherine wrote:

Well... of course. Sean was making a thoughtful recommendation, not offering a guarantee.

I wasn't trying to be rude to Sean, I was just trying to make a point. I apologize if it came across that way.

Catherine wrote:

Based on the experimenting I've done so far, during the past 5 months, I suspect that he is right about my needing springs.

This is very much a possibility. Once again, though, there is only one way to find out.

Catherine wrote:

I'm sure Flobeds has great products. It just seems more likely that I'll have better luck with latex over springs -- if I can find a good base. Which might come from a new mattress (which I'd use until it needed surgery) or might come from the mattress my friend is selling (haven't seen it yet).

I'm not trying to sell flobeds, as there is nothing special about their product. LI foam inside a nice cotton/wool encasement. What they do well is their business model of allowing 100 day guarantee, and very affordable core swaps. I do believe LI latex foam + their nice cover will make a top end all latex mattress. If this works, then great!

To be perfectly honest, I'd just build my own latex bed if I knew for sure a latex bed works for me and what core ILDs I need. I do not, hence my willing to pay the premium price for a flobed.

Catherine wrote:

By the way, I thought the Prana latex mattresses at City Mattress were actually latex on top of poly foam. Am I wrong? Oh, never mind; looked it up, and I see that some of the Prana mattresses are latex-on-poly-foam and the super-expensive line of Prana mattresses are all latex. (But of course they don't give you specs -- not online anyway.) Well, maybe I'll go lie on a few anyway at some point.

The current line of Pranasleeps (4th Generation) available at Citymattress do not incorporate any poly foam. If you have a citymattress nearby, I'd recommend trying out a few. You are correct in the fact that they do not list their ILD specs online. They do however mention that they all use 100% natural latex except for their Om Shanti model which uses blended latex. The salesman I spoke to also showed me paperwork stating their foam is from LI. Trying these out still only gives you an idea of what latex is capable of, as they only have a few firmness models.

I'm certainly not trying to steer you to latex, I'd just hate to see you buy another $500+ matttress, perform surgery on it, possibly trying a different latex topper or two (other than the ones you already have), and still not get it right.
 

This message was modified Feb 5, 2012 by megalops
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #94 Feb 5, 2012 11:46 AM
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megalops wrote:

This is very much a possibility. Once again, though, there is only one way to find out...........

I'm certainly not trying to steer you to latex, I'd just hate to see you buy another $500+ matttress, perform surgery on it, possibly trying a different latex topper or two (other than the ones you already have), and still not getting it right.

I understand what you're getting at, and I appreciate the concern; thanks for clarifying.

And you're right -- I'd have to try a real mattress, rather than trying to approximate one with a stack of various 1" and 2" toppers, to find out for sure one way or the other -- I'm just not sure I want to do that right now, given the poor results of the experimenting I've done so far.

Of course, I'm not sure of anything right now where mattresses are concerned. Well, other than that the entire industry needs a massive overhaul.

I'd love to avoid doing another mattress surgery, considering that this one turned out so poorly. (I think it might have worked fine if the springs had been better/stronger, but who knows?)

It just doesn't seem like there are a lot of good options unless I want to double or triple my general price range -- and it's probably not worth spending oodles more for a high-end full-size mattress, resting on a frame that I'd like to replace eventually but not just yet. (Prices for queen-size mattresses don't generally seem much higher than those for full-size, and you get more options, like split foundations with adjustable slats.)

 

Um... I think that's a long way of saying that for now, I just want something I can get by with for a while, using some of the stuff I have now.

(I actually slept OK last night but I'm still really tired... some of that fatigue has to be residual from the lack of decent sleep the night before.)

This message was modified Feb 5, 2012 by Catherine
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #95 Feb 5, 2012 3:07 PM
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Catherine wrote:

Of course, I'm not sure of anything right now where mattresses are concerned. Well, other than that the entire industry needs a massive overhaul.


Amen!

Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #96 Feb 6, 2012 5:22 AM
Joined: Nov 25, 2009
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JasonRatky wrote:

"We talked for a bit; I told him about the mattress surgery, about the stack of various toppers I'm sleeping on now, and about the difficulties of balancing support with pressure relief (i.e., if hips are OK, my shoulders get crunched); and he said he wouldn't recommend a latex mattress for me. He thinks I'll do better using latex over springs; and he advised finding a continuous-coil innerspring (with at least 660 coils for a full-size mattress) and *avoiding* pocket coils because they might let the hips sink too far. "

         Now that guy sounds like he knows what he's talking about!

            (megalops gets full on mad)

 

LOL calm down bro, he was just making a suggestion, not guaranteeing that any particular solution will work for anyone.  Just noting for those who've been following along that I also made that suggestion several dozens of posts back, because latex over springs has been my go-to setup for a couple of years now. A few inches of memory foam over springs is nice too though, even if it doesn't hold up as long.  Either way, ultimately I've found there's no substitute for springs through solid foam alone, as some have.

What ever came of the mattress your friend was trying to dump? If that or something like it doesn't come through soon for further experimentation, just start trying some ready out of the box stuff from retailers that offer 100% no risk returns.  For instance all of the mattresses at samsclub that are listed as having free shipping (well, shipping included)- if it doesn't work out, they come pick it up & you don't pay anything either way. All of your money back. Then the ones where shipping is extra, that's all you lose  when they pick it up, the amount of shipping, one way.  Same with costco, & maybe some of your smaller retailers in your area too. Because there's only a finite number of possible combinations one can stack the layers you're working with- don't lose too much more sleep spinning your wheels.

 

 

 

 

Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #97 Feb 6, 2012 11:53 AM
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JasonRatky wrote:

(megalops gets full on mad)

Nah, you're misinterpreting the tone there; read the next couple of posts, and you'll see.

 

What ever came of the mattress your friend was trying to dump? If that or something like it doesn't come through soon for further experimentation, just start trying some ready out of the box stuff from retailers that offer 100% no risk returns. 

Haven't seen my friend's mattress yet; she's still quite ill (we haven't even been able to exchange Christmas gifts yet). sad We try to make plans, but the plans change; that's just the way it is.

No Costco in my area. Sam's Club mattresses appear to be all Sertas (all that are listed online). Already forgot what's at BJ's, but nothing stood out.

If/when I get the time & energy, I'll take a look at department stores and mattress retailers. Might be a while, though; I'm working a lot.

This message was modified Feb 6, 2012 by Catherine
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #98 Feb 13, 2012 11:20 AM
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Yesterday I finally got to visit my friends who had said they wanted to sell an old but barely used innerspring mattress. We had a lovely visit, but I didn't get a good look at the mattress; and for various reasons, they seem not to be ready to part with it after all. So that's out, and I'm back to square one.

Did some mattress shopping on Saturday, but nothing knocked my socks off.   Tried various memory-foam mattresses; hated them.   Found the continuous-coil Sertas to be quite uncomfortable (hard on the shoulders).   Didn't find anything really comfortable at Jamestown Mattress.   Nor at City Mattress -- although I didn't spend much time on any given mattress there, and had a salesman talking at me the whole time I was there.  He seemed a bit sad about the decline of Stearns & Foster (after it got bought by Sealy's) and of Sealy's (after it got bought by a private equity firm). He seemed to think that Simmons mattresses are still built OK. (And he thinks Stearns & Foster are still the best, but are not what they used to be.) 

I might have to go to a different City Mattress store and spend some time on the PranaSleep latex mattresses (without someone talking at me) to see how those feel.

As far as coils go, I didn't like the continuous-coil mattresses I tried, so I'm still thinking that pocket coils might be supportive enough if they're around 13 gauge (not the 15-gauge lightweight ones); or maybe offset coils would work in a low gauge (Original Mattress Factory's Orthopedic line uses 12.75-gauge knotted offset coils).  I don't think I want to drive 4.5 to 5 hours to an Original Mattress Factory store, though.

Might have to get some high-density poly foam from FBM after all.... (Or maybe not, since I read a few posts here saying that the PU foam had a horrible smell -- presumably, the lovely petrochemical offgassing.)

I confess that I am still wondering if I could latex zoning right, if I had a couple inches of 20-22 ILD Talalay to work with. Argh.

This message was modified Feb 14, 2012 by Catherine
Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #99 Feb 14, 2012 3:23 PM
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Catherine,

i remember reading a bunch of this thread back in the days when I was active here. Sorry you are struggling so. Re your zoning issue, have you tried laying fabric or cardboard or anything under the latex where you want more support? Even a towel makes a pretty big difference. Although so far I haven't found anything "magic" this way...

Thanks for your comments in the other thread. Good luck!

Steve

Re: Tweaking my toppers again / mattress surgery
Reply #100 Feb 14, 2012 3:58 PM
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st3v3k4hn wrote:

Re your zoning issue, have you tried laying fabric or cardboard or anything under the latex where you want more support? Even a towel makes a pretty big difference. Although so far I haven't found anything "magic" this way...

Right now, I'm using a 5mm yoga mat, 2" down in the stack, and a piece of luan 3" below that (both going across the middle third of the bed, for the hip area). They might be helping, but I'm not there yet.

I'm adding one more piece of luan, in the same spot as the first piece; we'll see if that helps any or just makes pressure points worse.

This message was modified Feb 14, 2012 by Catherine