What am I doing wrong re: memory foam topper?
| Hello to everyone. Ok, so I have been through a Sealy memory foam bed (softened up too much and caused low back pain for me>>>returned) then a Temperpedic (too firm, caused shoulder pain and numbness>>>returned) then a Sealy Purembrace latex (worst of all, the indentations myself and my husband left after only a few months were unacceptable - felt like sleeping in a hole, and caused back pain and tossing and turning>>>hoping to sell). Which leads me to bed #4 - cheapest Simmons bed at Macys, listed as a firm but with the softer gauge wires. Actually doesn'f feel too bad alone, but not the feel I want so I bought it with the intention of getting a topper. I purchased an Aerus 2.5" memory foam topper from Sam's Club, which is 5# foam. This is the problem now: the topper just does not seem like memory foam on the bed. I don't get the "sinking into it" feeling that I like from memory foam. (But not sinking too much!) I have tried using the bamboo cover that came with the topper, and even flipped it over to use the thin sheet-like underside facing up, but no difference, really, It doesn't seem to respond like the old memory foam topper I had (no idea what the specs were on that one.) I was hoping it would feel close to the Sealy memory foam bed, or the Temperpedic, or at least like my old topper felt when it was new. So, my question is, did I buy too heavy of foam? Do I need softer memory foam? Or do I need a thicker topper? I'm lost at this point and am hoping for some suggestions..... |
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| Where I am getting confused is the Tempurpedic bed we had had the "HD" foam on top - it was only 1.2-inches but it is listed as being 7# foam. Maybe the Sealy and the TP are more heat sensitive than this topper? Geez. I don't even know anymore, lol. |
Re: What am I doing wrong re: memory foam topper?
| Possibly it is less heat sensitive due to the way they make it. It is suppose to be cooler, but that may affect how it reacts to heat as well. |
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I'm glad I found your conversation. I bought a momory foam topper from overstock a week ago. For a while I've been having trouble sleeping and I bough into the whole "sleeping like a baby" sales pitch. But after a week of using the foam, I haven't been able to enjoy a good night sleep. I bough a Sealys Queens size foam, 4 inch, 3 pound density. But when I sleep I feel my lower back sinking while my upper and lower body are higher up (like a concave arch). What do you suggest I do? Should I try a higher density topper? Thanks |
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Your memory foam is probably too thick and not dense enough. Memory foam does not provide a lot of support, so you will sink in too far where your greatest amount of weight is. If you sleep on your side (or possibly back), that is probably your hips. You are better off with 4-5 lb. density and 1-2". The thing to do is probably to buy 1", if that is not enough, buy another inch, etc. A bit more expensive that way, but you have much greater flexibility. For more support though you should consider a latex topper. Those can be both firmer and higher density than memory foam. However, it does not fee as plush or mold to the body the same way. So, you might want 1" of latex with 1" of memory foam over it, if you are not totally happy with the feel of latex. But you should try the latex by itself first. Unfortunately, trial and error is the only way you can figure out what will be best for you. This message was modified Feb 2, 2010 by sandman
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Note that for some people memory foam just does not work in any #lb density or form. If you think you may be one of those, try a very soft latex, like Talalay 24ILD or so. Maybe 1.5". Or two x 1" layers is even better, that gives you options of using only one or one latex and one memory foam or two latexes and one memory foam... etc. |
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| Thank you for the reply. Since Overstock won't accept the topper back. What options do I have? Would using the latex topper on top of the memory foam help? |
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I'm afraid Jackson has left the forum. This message was modified Feb 4, 2010 by Pete
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