Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Mar 9, 2010 11:44 PM
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I have an "S" brand mattress that's about 13 years old now. The whole time I've had it, it's been on a captain's bed with a bunky board, and for the last 3 years or so I've had a 3" memory foam topper sitting on it. That last step was mainly because, at the time, I didn't have the savings handy to buy a cheap mattress, never mind something like a TempurPedic, but my lower back was so sore every morning that I had to do something. It's worked pretty well until fairly recently, but for several months I've been tossing and turning more and once again waking up with pain in my lower back every morning.

My wife and I went to the local Sleepys to try out the mattresses and start the ball rolling on buying a new one. Long story short, I literally laid down on every level of spring mattress they had to offer, and every single one made my lower back hurt in no more than two minutes. The Dormia pillow-top bed was close, but even that had my lower back getting sore after about five minutes or so; the standard Dormia was out in under a minute. The only bed I was comfortable on for a long period, both on my back and on my side, was the TempurPedic Celebrity Bed. The Rhapsody Bed was a close second; perfectly fine on my back, but it was uncomfortable to lay on my side as I started to feel it in my hip and shoulder. Of course, the Celebrity Bed is the most expensive bed in the store. :-\

So I'm pretty much ready to go for the Celebrity Bed, but I'm wondering if I should give a spring mattress a try with the topper that I have. The topper certainly helped when I first got it, and it may be that using it with a new mattress will work as well or better than it did with a then 10-year old model. That would save a boatload of money, and I could even pay in full up front rather than financing it (although the current 0% financing offer certainly makes things easier); but I'm wondering if it will pan out in the long run. I'm guessing that the mattress being on a solid platform, rather than a boxspring, might be contributing to the problem (although all the mattresses in the store were on box springs and still killed me). Sleepys does offer a 30-day return for credit option, so I could try some other spring mattress with the topper, and if I'm still hurting after a month I could exchange it for the Celebrity Bed. But I'm so sick of waking up sore / in pain every morning that I really want to just get something that works from Day One.

My lower back pain is due in part to having tilted hips, so that my spine is never really straight in that area. It just seems sensitive to pressure points pushing on it from the mattress, and the fact that I couldn't stand lying on my back for more than a couple of minutes, even on a pillow-top mattress, makes me think that I'm one of those people who basically has to go with tempur foam. But my wife and I are trying to avoid spending more than necessary if we can (whether up front or over a 3-year financing term). I've looked at knock-off foam mattresses like Select Foam and Angel Beds, but I've seen lots of negative reviews of the latter, and the Select Foam web site just doesn't give a "professional" feeling or leave me feeling comfortable with the merchant (there are LOTS of typos all over the site [they can't bother with spell check or a copy editor?], they don't really detail the mattress construction the way TempurPedic does, and so on). I'm really hesitant to put my money on the line with one of those knock-offs.

Can the folks here with lower back issues chime in with how they've gotten back to restful sleep? I've read through several pages of the postings here, including the "mattress surgery" thread. But I'm trying to keep things simple, and I'm hoping that I can get a general "go with this route" consensus.

Thanks in advance! It took a while to find this site, but I'm glad it's here and that there's such an active community! :-)

- Joe -

This message was modified Mar 9, 2010 by JLMoran1705
Re: Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Reply #2 Mar 10, 2010 5:40 AM
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JLMoran1705 wr

Can the folks here with lower back issues chime in with how they've gotten back to restful sleep? I've read through several pages of the postings here, including the "mattress surgery" thread. But I'm trying to keep things simple, and I'm hoping that I can get a general "go with this route" consensus.

Thanks in advance! It took a while to find this site, but I'm glad it's here and that there's such an active community! :-)

- Joe -


It seems to me very few people who've come to this forum have liked their Tempurpedic. There apparently are those out there who do but my guess is that people with lower back pain do not. I myself tried one and did not like it, it does not give proper support in my humble opinion.

What works?

Maybe nothing... That is, after having been in several accidents, and having scoliosis and shoulder issues as well, I am resigned to think no mattress will ever work for me on a regular, consistent basis.

However, my wife, who has back issues but less severe than mine has had success with her Sealy offset springs followed by a layer of HR foam (1/2" very firm), then a layer of Venus mem. foam (1" fake Venus from O'stock) and a layer of 3/4" Talalay medium-soft on top.

Me, I have had some success with various similar configurations. Right now I am using, from top to bottom:
1" natural Talalay 32ILD latex
1" fake Venus O'stock memory foam
1" HR foam - Firm (36? ILD)
Englander 12.5 gauge springs (Bonnell springs)

The nice thing about mattress surgery is you have total control and it takes less than 10 min. to change up a configuration to make it softer or firmer.

You could always buy a super Firm S mattress (I recommend Sterns and Foster for their springs, at least that is what I would try next if I had the $) and put a nice 1" layer of soft latex or med. latex on top. Then if that doesn't work, mattress surgery is quick and easy and you could buy another layer of latex to replace the crap PU foam inside.

Also, if you have a King and your wife and you sleep in the same bed, it's very easy to split a king down the middle with two sides, each equivalent to a Twin Long. So each of you can have your own firmness and own configuration. They just sit next to each other and pretty much stay in place on their own. Maybe once every coupla months, you can check them and adjust them if necessary but that has never been an issue for me using various zones and layers next to each other.
Re: Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Reply #3 Mar 10, 2010 6:21 AM
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Thanks for the replies so far. To answer some of your questions / comments:

  1. We have a queen size mattress, and plan to stick with queen since that's the size of our captain's bed and we don't want to find one of those in king size
  2. For TP mattresses, Sleepys offers 90-day trial instead of 30. However, it's still store credit on a return, rather than a full refund. I've discussed this with my wife, and we agree that if we do go with TempurPedic it will be by direct purchase from them.
  3. I already have a TP pillow, and my wife has a different brand of memory foam pillow that she's quite happy with. So having pillows included isn't really necessary. The TP mattress pad, however, IS given all the comments about fitted sheets slipping on the Celebrity Bed
  4. Jimsocal, The high-end TP mattresses (Celebrity and Rhapsody) were the only ones in the store where as I lay on them I felt more and more comfortable, especially on my back. I was actually dozing off in those, where I absolutely had to get up when lying on the spring coil mattresses. However, as you noted, I might be able to get away with a spring mattress if I layer foam on it.
  5. Can someone explain how HR foam is different from regular memory foam or Tempur foam? I thought Tempur foam was high resiliency?

Thanks again!

- Joe -

Re: Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Reply #4 Mar 10, 2010 2:05 PM
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"The TP mattress pad, however, IS given all the comments about fitted sheets slipping on the Celebrity Bed"

This is way ahead of you even deciding on which bed to try, but If you were to try the Celebrity, IMHO, the newer TP mattress protector is a waste of 89.00. I bought it, and It was literally like sleeping on a plastic bag. There are other mattress protectors that are much more comfortable and will hold the fitted sheet in place. Protect-a Bed, and Southern Textiles Platinum, are two.




Re: Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Reply #5 Mar 10, 2010 2:30 PM
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Do a google on Sleepy's I think you will find some complaints on them FYI.



JLMoran1705 wrote

My wife and I went to the local Sleepys to try out the mattresses and start the ball rolling on buying a new one. Long story short, I literally laid down on every level of spring mattress they had to offer, and every single one made my lower back hurt in no more than two minutes. The Dormia pillow-top bed was close, but even that had my lower back getting sore after about five minutes or so; the standard Dormia was out in under a minute. The only bed I was comfortable on for a long period, both on my back and on my side, was the TempurPedic Celebrity Bed. The Rhapsody Bed was a close second; perfectly fine on my back, but it was uncomfortable to lay on my side as I started to feel it in my hip and shoulder. Of course, the Celebrity Bed is the most expensive bed in the store. :-\


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Re: Wondering if I should stick with the same setup
Reply #6 Mar 10, 2010 4:34 PM
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JLMoran1705 wrote:
Thanks for the replies so far. To answer some of your questions / comments:
  1. Can someone explain how HR foam is different from regular memory foam or Tempur foam? I thought Tempur foam was high resiliency?

Thanks again!

- Joe -


I think Budgy can give you a more technical explanation but I'll tell you what I can based on experience, in layman's terms.

Tempurpedic foam is a type of visco-elastic foam designed to conform to your body's heat and pressure. It is sold in terms of Density such as 3lb density, 5lb density, etc. The more dense it is, the more support it provides in my opinion. Tempurpedic uses a proprietary type of visco foam (also known as memory foam) which is maybe around 5lb. desnity. But there's more to it than just how dense it is, I think Tempur. has a special patented formula which makes it somewhat better than most other memory foams. However, that does not translate into it being a great foam for sleeping, in my opinion.

To me, Tempurpedic was great for the first few nights then got too soft and hurt my back. Everyone is different and I'm certainly a difficult case, so one has to try for oneself. All I am saying is that Tempurpedic seems not to have a huge success record among members here. I know Budgy knows people who have been happy with it, though. So I say "whatever works" for you, and certainly you may want to try it, as I did.

Now, as to High Resiliency foam, it is not a visco foam at all, it is just a glorified PU or Polyurethane foam. It is glorified because it lasts much longer than most of the cheap PU used in mattresses. It is also higher density than most of the foam used in mattresses so it provides more support and lasts longer than most pu foam. It is amazing to me that the Big S companies insist on using the cheapest crappiest foam out there even though they keep getting tons of complaints and returns. You'd think they'd want to solve that problem by using a higher quality foam such as HR foam, but they keep using low density cheap PU foam. Go figure. Like most of the world nowadays, I think it's a case of short-sightedness: profits now, and no thought of quality or the future or our business. [Okay, off my soap box now.]

This page explains what HR foam is:
http://www.carrscorner.com/foam.php

I see where your confusion comes in, as in my search for the above link I saw some sites calling Visco Foam "HR Visco foam". I am not sure what that means, but HR poly foam is different from HR memory or visco foam. HR poly foam is simply a more dense, higher quality PU or poly foam, which lasts longer than most cheap PU foam.

HR foam does not have the "memory" effect or any of the same qualities as memory or visco foam, it's a completely different thing.

Basically HR foam will last 3-10 years (my experience is that it lasts only 2-3 years for a mattress layer because one notices the breaking down of the foam more when sleeping on it. It is really designed mostly for furniture and so it probably lasts much longer for a chair or couch because you aren't spending 8 hours reclining on it so you don't notice the softening or lack of support that will inevitably happen to any foam over time. It can work for a component type DIY mattress because it is easy to replace when it breaks down and no longer gives the support you want. However, it also does not give the type of support and comfort that latex gives. But if you're on a budget it can work at least for the core or bottom layers.

Also, in my experience, HR foam provides a more "dead" feel, in that it does not conform to your body the way latex does, and the way - imho - visco does too much of. That is, to me, visco foam including Tempur., allows your body to sink down into it too much, whereas latex does not unless maybe it's a super soft latex. But with super soft latex you would only use that as a thin topper, not as a mattress layer. For a mattress layer you would use a higher ILD latex such as a 28-36ILD latex, then maybe just put a thin soft latex or a thin visco layer on top.

I hope you were able to make sense of this, I kind of threw it together.
This message was modified Mar 10, 2010 by jimsocal