I purchased a Talalay blended mattress from SleeptEZ about one year ago, and I've never really been able to get comfortable on it. When I first lay down, I love the way it feels, soft yet supportive, and very springy, yet after a short while pressure points start to build, mostly in my lower back, and I end up tossing throughout the night trying to get comfortable. Since I have a 3 layer Soft-Medium-Firm split, I've tried swapping layers in every conceivable configuration, but I've still just never been able to avoid waking up with lower back pain in the morning. Since I've had a lot of time to try different things and think about what the problem is, I'm starting to think that the pusback/springyness of the latex is just too strong for me, even though the top layer of foam is soft. When I lay down on my couch with its cheap PU foam I feel more comfort than I do on the latex mattress. Maybe this means latex just isn't for me? I'm curious what others think about the pushback effect of latex. Is this real, and can it be too much for some people? Is there anything I can try? Thanks, Jonathan This message was modified May 11, 2010 by slantedview
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If you are not happy with this in1 year you won't be happy with it ever. This message was modified May 11, 2010 by firstposter
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I am somewhat similiar in that I don't find a 100% latex mattress totally satisfying. I have ended up using 2" of memory foam to make my mattress a bit more plush and body conforming. I think memory foam does a better job of pressure relief, but too much will not provide enough support. I currently have 1" of memory foam on top and another 1" below 1" of latex. This is on top of 2" of latex, which is on Sealy springs. However, if you have back issues I am not sure memory foam would help you. I assume you have tried firmer configurations and they are no better? Too firm can cause back issues (for me) if it forces me to sleep in a position (kind of slumped on my stomach) which puts strain on my back. |
In what position do you sleep? I find our latex guest bed is fine for me when I sleep on my side, but too soft if I try to sleep on my stomach.
I thought lower back pain was usually aggravated by a bed that is too soft, not too firm. Pain in shoulders and hips is from too firm. But I'm sure that generalization doesn't apply to everyone. Not to be flip, but perhaps you need to do more than just the bed to improve your lower back? My wife can get some back pain if she stops doing her usual strength and flexibility exercises. Finally, by all means I think you may be able to put something on top of your mattress to make it a bit more soft if that's what you're looking for.
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I felt the same way about my flobeds mattress, when I tried one. It felt like it was pushing back too much and would not let my body relax. I sent it back, got a refund, no problem. What I finally realized for myself - some people are the same way - is that I need SPRINGS - or "coils" as the industry terms them - under my body. You might be like me in that respect. But before you decide to re- do your whole mattress which you have a lot of $ invested in, try this: Try a 1" or so layer of super soft latex. I'm going to recommend that you buy 1" of super soft Talatech latex in ILD 14 from sleeplikeabear.com. Note that it may take you a couple weeks or more to get it because they are said to be slow. Now, I have not tried the Talatech ILD 14 but I have been told by an expert that this will improve that feeling of pushing back that some feel is too strong with latex. I plan to get one as a topper when I can afford it. The other option is of course memory foam and you could try, say, 1" of Sensus memory foam on top and see if that works for you. If it feels too hot, put some wool - like an old wool blanket or specially made wool topper - on top. You can get Sensus memory foam at overstock.com. Know that memory foam tends to break down rather quickly so if it works for you, it may stop working for you after some time... You could also try just a cheap pu foam topper... Seems to me that you need to put SOMEthing in between you and the latex... but if you put too much soft foam in between you and the latex it will hurt your back. So you have to find just the right thickness and the right softness. Good luck! |
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This message was modified May 12, 2010 by slantedview
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jonathan This message was modified May 12, 2010 by slantedview
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The Nutratemp memory foam topper being sold at Costco is rated 14 IFD/ILD. I think it would feel a little softer than a latex at the same ILD rating. Diane |
i am sending back my costco latex, have sent back two sleep science foams and 2 tempurpedics and now realize i probably have to find a spring mattress
my reaction to this latex is almost as if i am allergic to it, i have pain all around my back that i never had before and it isnt muscle pain or it isnt related to discs I should say |
After my car accident, my lower back was hurting as well as my neck area. I decided to go firmer in the bed and switched out two X-firm latex cores for two Super Firm Latex cores with a 1" topper and my pain went away when I am sleeping. I still have pain off and on when I am doing activities now since the car accident but sleeping is wonderful. The lower back does not like a too soft bed in my opinion. I feel you need to have all firmer layers with a very small cushion on top for your pressure points. Well, this is what I needed and it worked. |
Thanks for the response Lynn. I ordered a 1" extra soft memory foam piece (cheap, just to see how it goes) and I'll be sure to try adjusting the layers under that, as you suggested. This message was modified May 14, 2010 by slantedview
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In a short time the memory foam will more than likely wear out (they usually do). Then perhaps you can buy a 18ILD latex topper would be like memory foam? The memory foam will probably make your shoulders happy, but it never worked for my hips. It just goes flat on me. Good luck. I just read you don't really sleep on your sides, that you are a back sleeper, so maybe a wool pad would fill in the gap the small of your back gets with latex. I don't have back pain since I got the wool on top Natura pad. But I am a side sleeper that has to sleep on her back because of hip pain. Also I have a 1" soft latex under that with other firm latex under that. A fluffly wool pad might help, but those too go flat after a while. Good luck. Post back after a while. The wool will sleep cooler than memory foam also. This message was modified May 14, 2010 by Leo3
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While you are figuring out a solution, try placing a flattish pillow or two under your knees ( for back sleeping). this will take the stress off of the lower back. sleeping on the side, you would place a pillow between the knees |
Sometimes I wonder if the 3" layers is too much. I have to wonder if you switched out the 3" soft latex for a 1-2" piece of perhaps a tiny bit firmer. Not sure what the soft is rated at for Sleepeze. Sleeplikeabear has 1" or 2" latex, or Rocky Mountain has 1" 2" 24ILD natural latex. But maybe like I said before 1-2" of wool would ease your back pain. Just MHO. The small of my back use to hurt before I started using the wool. |
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Jim, I think the 14ILD would go flat in no time. I have the Brylane Home which is 1" Dunlopillo blended talalay and I think it is 18ILD (mine anyway). This goes flat when I lay on it, so I don't think it does much for you. I know Lynn likes hers, but she is thin in comparison to me, so consider how much you weigh first. I still think a fluffy wool topper will help your back. This message was modified May 17, 2010 by Leo3
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When I read your post, It gave me a sinking feeling that my husband and I may be just like you. We have had our bed for a couple of weeks now, and our lower backs are hurting. I talked my husband into getting a latex bed from SleepEz, and now he is not very happy with my decision. I just had a baby a couple of months ago, so I was already dealing with lower back problems from the epidural. We have five kids, and I waited 15 years to get a new mattress, and now I am sad that it is not working out. I feel stubborn, and do not want to send mine back yet. But I'm beginning to think there is no combination that will work for us. Something makes me think that top layer is just too soft in the talalay. I wanted to switch it for a medium, but Shaun said there really is no difference. Do they not like taking the topper back?. makes me wonder. You mentioned getting a memory foam topper. Please think twice before doing that. They offgas, and are very bad for your health. I would think a nie soft talalay on top covered with a luxery cover would work. hope you find comfort soon. how is it that in the 50's people were fine with sleeping on latex, and even loved their latex pillows, but we have trouble. Maybe our bodies are just conditioned already to springs. I do however love my latex pillow even though it smells like tires, which I kinda like. My husband thinks his latex pillow is too hard. I got mine at JcPenny with a nice soft pillow cover on them. My biggest fear is that somehow this mattress is not good for the baby. I should have listened to Shaun and waited to buy this. |
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I wouldn't worry about your baby's mattress unless your baby seems unusually restless and doesn't sleep well. Even though I couldn't sleep on latex, I got my granddaugher the Natura crib mattress. Maybe my daughter lucked out with an incredibly happy baby, but she said the little thing slept so well she was always checking on her to make sure she was still breathing. She is now 3 years old and still sleeps very well on the mattress but with a new baby on the way she will have to relinquish it to the new addition. |
Thanks DianeK for your thoughts. I'm not ready to give up on it just yet, it's only been a couple of weeks. I still have some more configurations I have not tried yet. My back is not as sore anymore, but I think in the morning my husbands side actually feels better to me. And his is a lot firmer. He has been sleeping on the couch since the baby likes to nurse all night. It is just easier this way. We all get to sleep, and that is what is important right now for our sanity. I thought about getting the baby a latex mattress too, but I wasn't sure if my bed was making her nose stuffy. she is not having any different symptoms than she did before the bed arrived, I just worry about everything with this baby since I lost the last one at 5 months along in my pregnancy. She is my 5th baby, I did not worry like this with my first, I think I was just too dumb. Now with an overkill over info online, there is just more to worry about. I still want to get the toppers for my other kids beds. They love my bed. They call it the Marshmellow bed. My 10 year old son is deaf, and he has a lot of skin issues and alergies too, I was hoping a latex topper might help him. |
My husband thought he wanted a soft latex from SleepEz, but after just one night, he had me call and have them send out a X-firm. Now he likes the X-firm, then Firm in the middle and the soft on top. But we both think a Medium talaly on top with be better. The soft is like wet marshmellow. You sink right into it too much. I wish I would have gotten a 6" core cheaper somewhere else like Foambymail, and started softening it myself. I think these layers are a nightmare. |
I'm thinking that surely a Talatech 14ILD will provide more support than a fluffy wool topper. Of course, I have been wrong before and I could be wrong again. But I'd like to try the soft latex. |
Did you get the natural or the blended Talalay?
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Jim, maybe your wool pad is more densely packed then my wool on top mattress pad, it looks like sheepskin rugs. Of course mine will be going flat in time I am sure. But yours is inside the cotton right? Maybe you are right and the soft latex (if only 1") will fill in the small of your back for more comfort. You got to keep trying right? me too. |
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If you read Lynn's posts she uses 1" soft latex over a firm latex base. For some people (light weight) this might be the solution. As for the 50's Sears beds, wouldn't you like to have one of those to see what they are like? This message was modified May 19, 2010 by Leo3
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I have lower back issues as well. I think the Sleepez bed might not be the right configuration for you - the 3" soft layer on top might be too soft. For myself, I have on one side of the bed, 3" of XF (36 ILD) over 3" of XF over 3" of XF, and on the other side, 3" of F (32 ILD) over 3" of XF over 3" of XF. There is a 2" soft convoluted topper over all of that. The XF/XF/XF side started out being my side, then I became attracted to my husband's F/XF/XF side and switched our layers around so that would be my side. Although it is a little softer, my back is hurting again, so I'm about to go back to XF/XF/XF. I feel the Sleepez mattress configuration might be too soft for those of us with back pain issues. My daughter has the Sleepez mattress (10000 model) in F/M/S, and the soft layer is definitely too soft for someone with back issues, although it's very comfy for a quick lie down or for someone who doesn't have back issues and likes a cushy mattress. I would recommend you switch out that top layer for something firmer, and maybe even switch the middle layer to go one level firmer as well. The great thing about latex mattresses is our ability to exchange layers until we find what will work best for us. Or, if it doesn't work at all, you have the 90 day trial period to return the whole mattress. There's nothing to regret here, you are trying out a mattress - if you can't exchange layers to get it right for your back, or even after exchanging, you still can't get it right, you can return it. That is a much better deal than what you would have gotten if you'd walked into a mattress shop and purchased a mattress there. In a traditional mattress store, you may be able to do one mattress exchange, if you're lucky, but most won't let you return for a refund.
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I purchased a king-size 100% natural latex mattress from FloBeds last fall. It took me quite a while to get the adjustment correct. Even today there are times when one side of my bed, from the other, ( one side is firmer than the other) doesn't seem to be quite right. So the very best advice I can give to anyone who is seriously considering latex is to give yourself plenty of time, and to purchase from a company that gives you unlimited exchanges for a reasonable period of time. And then has a hundred percent refund policy. Once I got used to my latex bed ( I had previsously slept on a waterbeds for 20 years) I found that it gave me both excellent support and just the right amount of cushioning so that I could become comfortable and get a good nights sleep. Again the principle point I want to make is to be patient with yourself and don't always blame the bed when a nights sleep doesn't go as well as you would like. There are many factors which can cause a person's body to not relax and sleep properly that are not due to the mattress. This message was modified May 21, 2010 by eagle2
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i too have been a bit surprised by "the pushback effect of latex". i thought i would really like it since i love my latex pillows, but i have found that latex makes me toss and turn all night and it feels like i am sleeping on a rubber tire. whatever part of me is touching the mattress feels like it is pushing on me and i feel like i am fighing the mattress all night. the good news is, my back doesn't hurt. but the bad is that it feels hard. i am going to experiment with a really soft layer on top.... maybe a 14ild as was suggested? right now there is a fiber bed on top to soften it, but it is still too hard. btw, i LOVE my costco fiberbed. right now i have it doubled up on the latex (still too hard) it feels like sleeping on a cloud and definitely takes the edge off of a hard sleeping surface. while latex is healthy, i also am not loving the odor. i have a good nose and i wake up smelling like rubber. it really permeates everything including myself. apparently, the ability to smell latex is a genetic thing, my husband can smell it but it doesn't bother him, but for me it is the first thing i smell when i walk in the front door. i'm hoping it eventually goes away???
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