Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Jan 6, 2011 2:30 PM
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My friend bought a DUNLOP latex mattress and it is supposed to be of medium feel but after he slept on it he felt it was feeling firm to him. The latex layers are not changeable as they are stitched together so he cannot move them up or down.

 

Questions:

1.  How can he make the mattress feel softer for himself?

 

2.  Does the latex soften over time? I mean if the latex is supposed to have a medium feel then does it become softer after sleeping in for some time?

I mean does the latex breaks in like the memory foam is supposed to break in and become softer after sleeping for some time?

 

3.  Can he buy a latex topper and place it on the top of this latex mattress?

If so, What ILD latex will give him a softer feel?

And which latex will be better? Dunlop latex or Talalay latex?

(please NOte: that the mattress is Dunlop Latex)

What places will provide good quality and value for this latex topper?

 

4.  If not latex can he get a memory foam and what kind and from where?

 

Lots of questions but please help. Thanks so much.

This message was modified Jan 6, 2011 by roy1
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #1 Jan 6, 2011 7:30 PM
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How can he make the mattress feel softer for himself?

Adding a topper

 

Does the latex soften over time? I mean if the latex is supposed to have a medium feel then does it become softer after sleeping in for some time?

Latex is a lot more durable than other foams so it's (hopefully) not too likely it will get much softer. Perhaps a little ... or he may "get used to it".

 

Can he buy a latex topper and place it on the top of this latex mattress?

Yes

 

If so, What ILD latex will give him a softer feel?

The ILD and thickness would depend on his weight, sleeping positions, and what feels soft to him. Everyone is different.

 

And which latex will be better? Dunlop latex or Talalay latex?

They are just different, one is not "better" than another. Having said that, Talalay comes in softer versions than Dunlop and there are probably more people who prefer it in a topper than Dunlop. Again though his personal preference may be different.

 

What places will provide good quality and value for this latex topper?

There are lots but a few of them (for Talalay at least) are listed here

 

If not latex can he get a memory foam and what kind and from where?

He can ... but whether it would be better or preferable would be up to him. Memory foam is confusing and very "complicated" in terms of choosing between a gazillion different types ... some of which are junk and some of which are better quality. Most places don't tell you who manufacturers their memory foam so you often don't know what you are really buying but in general the memory foams made by Foamex (usually Aerus and Sensus) are among the better ones. There are some others as well and some research on the forum will probably "point you in the right direction".

Phoenix

This message was modified Jan 7, 2011 by Phoenix
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #2 Jan 6, 2011 11:46 PM
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I feel I'm in the same boat as your friend. My soft latex base + 3" soft topper from FBM still feels a bit firm to me, I need something more plush. Mem foam is out of the question for me so I'm going to try a natural featherbed topper.
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #3 Jan 7, 2011 12:50 AM
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Your FBM topper may not be as soft in reality as you believe it may be. The latex that comes from there is often not the ILD that you may have thought you were purchasing. Having said that it may also be that the ILD you bought was accurate and that that specific ILD is too firm for your preference. I believe that it is not a "coincidence" though that so many of the FBM purchases are firmer than people expected and it seems clear that the consistency of what they send when you order from them is part of the risk of buying from a source that is "cheap" but uncertain and not as accurate in what they send you.

Part of the problem with this is that if you believe for example that the "soft" latex you bought was really soft (say 20 and it was really 30) ... then you would be unlikely to purchase a real 20 ILD topper because you believed that was what you already had and wasn't working for you when it in reality could solve the problem you were having. This may lead to a long round of choices that never seem to work because your first assumption (that you have tried soft latex) is not correct. Your "reference point" for testing any future toppers can then become so distorted that any choices based on this end up disappointing.

The only time I would buy from an outlet where their accuracy is in question (FBM, Overstock etc) would be if it really didn't matter if what you got was what you ordered and if you knew ahead of time that mistakes in what they sent are a more likely cause of why it feels too firm than "choosing the wrong ILD".

The risks involved in buying from outlets like these are why I consider them to be poor value even though they are sometimes (not always) less expensive. Without luck, you are at the mercy of a coin flip.

Phoenix

This message was modified Jan 7, 2011 by Phoenix
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #4 Jan 7, 2011 9:23 AM
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What does FBM stands for?

Thanks Phoenix for detailed reply. You are invaluable asset to this forum. Thanks again.

Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #5 Jan 7, 2011 10:49 AM
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Relaxo wrote:

  

I feel I'm in the same boat as your friend. My soft latex base + 3" soft topper from FBM still feels a bit firm to me, I need something more plush. Mem foam is out of the question for me so I'm going to try a natural featherbed topper.


I agree with Phoenix that the FBM soft is probably firmer than the 20ILD they indicate.  That is based on other peoples comments, since I have never tried it.   It is possible that they process is really more like dunlop and not talalay.

I tried a feather bed once and ended up returning it.  It added more "fluff" than I like, and it really did not add support.   I just sank through it and bottomed out on the layer below.  It was a pretty good one too, if the details were accurate.  Small duck body feathers with a layer of down on top.
 

You may want to consider soft talalay from latex international.   Sleeplikeabear seems like the main place that sells 14 and 19 ILD blended.  The 100% natural is usually firmer than 20, but still might be softer than the FBM 20.

p.s. FBM stands for foambymail.com.

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Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #6 Jan 11, 2011 3:01 PM
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Phoenix wrote:

 

 

How can he make the mattress feel softer for himself?

 

Adding a topper

 

Does the latex soften over time? I mean if the latex is supposed to have a medium feel then does it become softer after sleeping in for some time?

Latex is a lot more durable than other foams so it's (hopefully) not too likely it will get much softer. Perhaps a little ... or he may "get used to it".

 

Can he buy a latex topper and place it on the top of this latex mattress?

Yes

 

If so, What ILD latex will give him a softer feel?

The ILD and thickness would depend on his weight, sleeping positions, and what feels soft to him. Everyone is different.

 

And which latex will be better? Dunlop latex or Talalay latex?

They are just different, one is not "better" than another. Having said that, Talalay comes in softer versions than Dunlop and there are probably more people who prefer it in a topper than Dunlop. Again though his personal preference may be different.

 

What places will provide good quality and value for this latex topper?

There are lots but a few of them (for Talalay at least) are listed here

 

If not latex can he get a memory foam and what kind and from where?

He can ... but whether it would be better or preferable would be up to him. Memory foam is confusing and very "complicated" in terms of choosing between a gazillion different types ... some of which are junk and some of which are better quality. Most places don't tell you who manufacturers their memory foam so you often don't know what you are really buying but in general the memory foams made by Foamex (usually Aerus and Sensus) are among the better ones. There are some others as well and some research on the forum will probably "point you in the right direction".

Phoenix



Thanks Phoenix but more questions as I gave this print out to my friend.

1.   Why add a topper?

He is 2 minds about keeping the bed and returning it. In other words he is not sure about whether keep the bed and add a topper OR just returning the bed! and getting a complete new one wholly made from Talalay latex since the one he has is made from Dunlop latex which is so hard(firm). 

About keeping the bed and adding a topper - he thinks the firm bed gives him a firm support base since it is all Dunlop and he can add a topper and make it softer.

And since the bed will only soften very little over time he can just add a topper and keep changing the toppers only?

 

2.  How the Bed feels to him now -

A.  He keeps waking through out night due to hardness(firmness) of the bed! He has had the bed only for 1 week now!

He says the bed feels less firm when he lays on it in the begining but soon it starts to feel harder(firmer). 

 

3.  He has several questions about toppers.

First The background:  He is 6 feet inch tall, says he weighs 225 pounds and usually sleeps sideways.

A. He is wanting to know the thickness of topper he should get - 1 inch/2inch/3inch or more?

B. Pure talalay latex or blended talalay?

C. What ILD Talalay latex would be suitable?

 

Without testing and laying down on a topper he is not sure about buying from internet?

4.  Are there any stores in Dallas-Ft Worth metroplex that sell Talalay toppers? So he can go and lay down on them and see what suits him best?

 

 Thanks so much.

 

This message was modified Jan 11, 2011 by roy1
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #7 Jan 11, 2011 6:03 PM
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It would probably help to know the brand and model of the mattress he has as this will give an idea about what he considers to be "too firm". In general Dunlop is sometimes too firm for some people on the top of a mattress but it is a great support material. Knowing what he has now will help a lot in deciding what what he could do next.

If you do a search for "Dallas" or "Texas" you will get a couple of lists that includes local manufacturers and retail outlets that sell latex.

Phoenix

Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #8 Jan 12, 2011 1:13 PM
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Phoenix wrote:

It would probably help to know the brand and model of the mattress he has as this will give an idea about what he considers to be "too firm". In general Dunlop is sometimes too firm for some people on the top of a mattress but it is a great support material. Knowing what he has now will help a lot in deciding what what he could do next.

 

If you do a search for "Dallas" or "Texas" you will get a couple of lists that includes local manufacturers and retail outlets that sell latex.

Phoenix



Hi Phoenix, I am the person who puchased this Dunlop Mattress.

It is 1" of 18 ILD on top then the next layer below is 2" of 24 ILD, below it is 6" of 24-32 ILD.  I called the company that makes it and first the person who picked the phone told me that the mattress is medium feel but that is not what I am feeling after trying hard to sleep on it since last week.

 ( I asked him who makes their dunlop and he would not tell me!

So I called their showroom and the sales person did not know who makes their latex! Then he called me later and said it was a company called LATEXCO.

So I called LATEXCO. And they have 2 offices one in East an done on West coast. I called the one in East and asked him if this company sources their latex from you - he replied that it does not ring a bell!

Then he told me LATEXCO DOES NOT MAKE DUNLOP LATEX!

I then called the West Coast office of Latexco and the salesperson told me LATEXCO MAKES DUNLOP LATEX. But he does not think LATEXCO sources their latex to the company I bought this DUNLOP LATEX BED FROM!

The whole thing is starting to sound fishy. )

 

I had the mattress for only a few days. I have a wollen mattress pad on it and a 400 thread count Egyptian cotton sheet on it.

Since the day I had this all supossedly Dunlop mattress, I have not gotten a decent sleep. It feels okay when I lay on it just for a couple

of seconds and then the matress begins to press against my body. Honestly, it feels firm, really firm. I am tossing and turning every minute and I am half awake all night. 

Should I return the mattress or should I spend more money and Add a topper. I have never slept on Talalay latex before so I would like to get a topper from place that takes the returns. What places do you know of that do that?

My Statistics are: weight 225 lbs, height 6 feet 1 inches, side sleeper, health issues are low backpain and neck pain.

Thank you very much Phoenix ;)

Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #9 Jan 12, 2011 1:56 PM
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Latexco does make and supply Dunlop latex (even though they call it their "unique" Latexco process). They also supply Talalay made by a company called Radium.

What brand is your mattress ... who did you buy it from?

I am not aware of any Dunlop latex that is 18 ILD and even 24 in Dunlop is usually considered soft so the first thing to do is confirm what actual ILD and type of latex is in your mattress. Once you know this it will be much easier to decide where to go next.

A wool pad will likely make the latex firmer as well. Some will make it quite a bit firmer ... some only a little firmer. Anything that isn't "stretchy" on top will do this.

Searching "dallas" or "Texas" in the forum will give you a list of outlets that sell latex.

Phoenix

This message was modified Jan 12, 2011 by Phoenix
Re: Friend needs help with already bought latex mattress
Reply #10 Jan 12, 2011 2:20 PM
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Phoenix wrote:

 

Latexco does make and supply Dunlop latex (even though they call it their "unique" Latexco process). They also supply Talalay made by a company called Radium.

 

What brand is your mattress ... who did you buy it from?

I am not aware of any Dunlop latex that is 18 ILD and even 24 in Dunlop is usually considered soft so the first thing to do is confirm what actual ILD and type of latex is in your mattress. Once you know this it will be much easier to decide where to go next.

A wool pad will likely make the latex firmer as well. Some will make it quite a bit firmer ... some only a little firmer. Anything that isn't "stretchy" on top will do this.

Searching "dallas" or "Texas" in the forum will give you a list of outlets that sell latex.

Phoenix

Thank you Phoenix. What do you suggest I put on the top f the mattress? Any topper at all? What kind of sheets?

It is made by a company called Innomax. The name of the mattress is "white night". On their web site it describes ILDs of this mattress. 1" of 18 ILD, 2" of 24 ILD, and 6" of 28-32 ILD. On the mattress tag it does not even say what kind of latex it is. Just that it is 94% latex and 6% cloth. When I called Innomax they said it is Dunlop latex but I have No tags on mattress or any literature from the company that says it is Dunlop latex.

I am worried as whole thing is getting confusing. Could SOMEONE CALL INNOMAX and ASK THEM What latex if ANY is used in this mattress? May be they will give him/her a better reply.  Thanks.

Since you said that 18 LD or 24 ILD are soft but they make up only the top 1 inch and the next layer 2 inch of the mattress. So why is this mattress so firm? When I lay on it it feels firm but not too firm but soon it starts to feel firm to the point I am tossing and turning in the bed to get some relief and I lie half awake in the bed all night.  When I get up I look at my face in the mirror and I look really tired.This thing is getting me really worried.

Thanks you Phoenix.

This message was modified Jan 12, 2011 by JoeM