How should my latex mattress feel when I lay on it?
Oct 8, 2009 5:23 PM
Joined: Aug 21, 2009
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I've had my new latex mattress for a little over a week now, and I have some questions for you other latex mattress users.  I'm a side sleeper, tall and heavier than average.  When I lie on my mattress, I find that I'm sinking into the mattress quite a bit (esp in the hip area).  The 6" core is 32 ILD and there is 2" of soft latex on both the top and bottom of that.  My back pain has for the most part gone away since I got the mattress, and my hip pain is totally gone, but the amount I'm sinking into the mattress is a little disconcerting and I'm wondering if I got too soft a core for my size.  I'm also wondering if, due to the amount my hips are sinking in, whether my spine is really aligned . . .

When you all sleep on your latex mattresses, are you finding that you're depressing the latex much, or are you mostly "floating" on top of it?  Since there has been an improvement in my pain, I'm hesitant to call Custom Comfort and ask them to put a firmer core in, but if, on the other hand, I'm sinking more than I should be, maybe I would do better with a firmer core.

Any thoughts?
Re: How should my latex mattress feel when I lay on it?
Reply #15 Oct 10, 2009 1:42 PM
Joined: Aug 17, 2009
Points: 542
KimberlyH wrote:
Eagle, I meant the URL to the Flobeds ILD charts that break down the ILDs considered "xfirm" vs "firm" vs "medium" vs "soft," but I went to the Flobeds website and found it.  I've seen the firmness advisor chart, but I'm not sure that takes into account factors such as hip and back pain.  I imagine I might want a little softer than what they recommend on their calculator, which is firm over xfirm.

Kimberly: There's no way that FloBeds "Firmness Advisor" can take into account factors such as hip and back pain with any degree of accuracy. If you went to three different doctors, be they chiropractors, or ODs, you could very well received three different opinions about what is best to do regarding your hip and back pain.

I am beginning to get the impression that the first two layers of a four layer bed are probably the most important as far as "feel" is concerned. Therefore FloBeds convoluted soft Talalay 2 inch top piece and the first 3 inch layer of what ever firmness level you choose, is going to give the greatest degree of impression on our physiology. But the next two 3 inch layers are the stabilizing and foundation factors that really matter over the long haul. At least that is my initial impression sleeping on my FloBeds mattress for two weeks come Monday.

One thing I am experiencing is the strong psychological effect of several nights sleeping on differing core firmness levels. We humans are very complex entities. We are a giant electrochemical unit. And the philosophers, sages and theologians have argued for millennia that we also have a soul. Whatever you choose to believe, believe this. We are highly complex. Also consider this. We spend one third of our lives sleeping. So it just makes sense that the sleep surface that we utilize is a very large contributor to our overall well-being. What makes it maddeningly difficult, when you're trying to choose the proper bed, is the way our bodies adapt to things. Now adapting is a very good! We'd all be in a lot of trouble if we couldn't adapt. But this also complicates trying to choose what layers you want in a latex mattress. Just read some of JimSoCal experiences with building his own mattress.

So make the changes that seem right to you, and then give yourself enough time to adapt to these changes before you make any final determination.

Just the advice of an old guy trying to adapt and choose..... right now.
This message was modified Oct 10, 2009 by eagle2