new mattress help
Feb 26, 2008 9:49 AM
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does anyone have any info on the following mattresses. Serta Perf. sleeper Northstar Stellaris-Sealy Post. Savior plush---- Sealy post, Influence----Sealy Post Inspiration------ Stearns and Foster Hoffman------ Corsicana------ I am a big guy but came across these mattresses and box springs for 500.any help would be greatly appreciated...
Re: new mattress help
Reply #11 Feb 27, 2008 1:00 PM
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sager66 wrote:
Any of those would be perfect for you.  Just select something that looks nice in your price range . . instead of wasting your time researching the previous contributions to this forum.

Ahhhh... you were being sarcastic. That went over my head. That's the danger of virtual communication I guess. The subtle (and not so subtle) nuances of sarcasm are easily misinterpreted without the benefit of voice tone or facial expression.

I'm relieved to know that you weren't dissing all previous contributers to this forum... just the poor guy asking a question.
Re: new mattress help
Reply #12 Feb 27, 2008 3:34 PM
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kimmcgov wrote:
Ahhhh... you were being sarcastic. That went over my head. That's the danger of virtual communication I guess. The subtle (and not so subtle) nuances of sarcasm are easily misinterpreted without the benefit of voice tone or facial expression.

I'm relieved to know that you weren't dissing all previous contributers to this forum... just the poor guy asking a question.


Don't feel bad - the sarcasm went over my head, too.

For those of us who are convinced that the Big S companies and others sell mattresses made of pure crap materials, it is difficult to answer these questions without sounding like curmudgeons who hate all mattress manufacturers (which, okay, I basically am! ;-D )

I mean, the facts are the facts: Sealy loads most (if not all) of their mattresses with crappy unsupportive material. I defy anyone to prove me wrong.

I will venture to guess that Serta, Spring Air, Sterns and Foster, Simmons, etc. - all the "big" manufacturers - also load their mattresses with super soft non-supportive foam and other junky materials that provide no support and wear out very quickly.

So it's my inclination to tell people this when they ask about a Big S mattress... I don't know who runs this forum and why they started it, but I am thankful that it exists and that they allow people to call them as they see them.

Re: new mattress help
Reply #13 Feb 29, 2008 6:18 AM
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I just don't see the point of being sarcastic or grouchy. People are looking for some direction here not humiliation. Shopping for a mattress can be overwhelming for a lot of people. Yeah, sure they ought to do the research but for a lot of  people--their head's are already spinning from just the shopping alone. They go into a store and all they see are S-brands everywhere that are marketed to seem like the answer to their prayers.

I don't have a problem with someone taking the fast track and just asking for a quick opinion. Most newbies don't realize that every store sells the same mattress under a different name or that mattress lines change every six months, so even if you do research this forum you probably won't find any information on the exact mattress you just looked at.

I think most of the regular participants on this forum like sharing their knowledge and helping other people out.  So yeah, Oilerguy, all the S-brands are basically crap and it doesn't matter what you buy. Avoid pillowtops, eurotops, plushtops etc. Just make sure it's got good sturdy springs and be prepared to open it up and replace the foam in a couple of years. Or better still, get a sturdy mattress without any foam and just add your own toppers.

Re: new mattress help
Reply #14 Feb 29, 2008 6:26 AM
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mccldwll wrote:
Then that would be a big mistake on your part. Sager66 has been here 3+ years and the posts are informative, succinct and chock full of excellent information. The position is correct. Posters should not just show up and without doing any preliminary research/reading here whatsoever, toss out a question whether any of half a dozen piece of $hit mattresses are any good. Those questions are a disservice to everyone here. They lower the discourse. And the funny thing is--that approach generally is disadvantageous even to the poster since has so little time and energy invested in the process that little necessary information will sink in.

That may be true, but lately all he does is bitch about how lazy people are. I disagree that the questions are a disservice to everyone here. I think the discourteous replies are a disservice. It's kind of like going to the information desk and asking for directions and having the staffer tell you to look at the directory yourself and not waste their time.  Read my other post on this matter.
Re: new mattress help
Reply #15 Feb 29, 2008 6:52 AM
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cloud9 wrote:
It's kind of like going to the information desk and asking for directions and having the staffer tell you to look at the directory yourself and not waste their time.

No. It's not. Reread the original post.
Re: new mattress help
Reply #16 Mar 2, 2008 6:14 AM
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cloud9 wrote:
It's kind of like going to the information desk and asking for directions and having the staffer tell you to look at the directory yourself and not waste their time.

mccldwll wrote:

No. It's not. Reread the original post.
Oilerguy wrote: does anyone have any info on the following mattresses. Serta Perf. sleeper Northstar Stellaris-Sealy Post. Savior plush---- Sealy post, Influence----Sealy Post Inspiration------ Stearns and Foster Hoffman------ Corsicana------ I am a big guy but came across these mattresses and box springs for 500.any help would be greatly appreciated...
You mean that original post, or have I completely lost sight of the point you're trying to make? Because I was remarking on Sager's and I guess on your impatience with people who take the shortcut and ask for some quick feedback without taking the time to read every post that was ever written on this forum.
This message was modified Mar 2, 2008 by cloud9
Re: new mattress help
Reply #17 Mar 2, 2008 7:16 AM
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"without taking the time to read every post that was ever written on this forum."

Given to hyperbole? Anyone capable of boiling water could spend 10 minutes checking reviews and scanning posts and discover not only that a $500 mattress/box spring set was junk, but that mattress names are all over the map.
Re: new mattress help
Reply #18 Mar 2, 2008 2:59 PM
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It's not nice to be a mattress snob. Very tempting, yes. But, still not nice. :)

I find this sort of thing happening on other consumer forums...EXCEPT CruiseCritic! :-) I learn so much from people asking questions that may have been asked a hundred posts ago. I also find that people will many times add a helpful link to a past thread which the current poster is asking about. Those kinds of helpful gestures make for a pleasant and user-friendly forum. AND, it sure keeps me coming back! Not to mention having the opportunity to actually have met some of these PATIENT folks.

I might not feel as excited about getting together with someone who was in the habit of ragging on me for my first time questions. :(

mccldwll wrote:
&quot;without taking the time to read every post that was ever written on this forum.&quot;<BR><BR>Given to hyperbole? Anyone capable of boiling water could spend 10 minutes checking reviews and scanning posts and discover not only that a $500 mattress/box spring set was junk, but that mattress names are all over the map.
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Re: new mattress help
Reply #19 Mar 3, 2008 6:27 AM
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mccldwll wrote:
"without taking the time to read every post that was ever written on this forum."

Given to hyperbole? Anyone capable of boiling water could spend 10 minutes checking reviews and scanning posts and discover not only that a $500 mattress/box spring set was junk, but that mattress names are all over the map.

Oh come on! The point of this forum is to share knowledge, not show everyone how superior we are. I don't have a problem with helping someone out. If you do, perhaps you should just not reply to questions you think are beneath you.
Re: new mattress help
Reply #20 Mar 3, 2008 7:43 AM
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You win. You're elected to answer every open-ended question tossed out, whether discussed and/or answered dozens of times before or not. It's like a high school student who has slept through an entire class, then wakes up with 5 minutes left and asks questions that everyone else has been discussing for the first 45 minutes. Good forums request that posters make a bit of an effort before posting. That's why FAQs are common. Snobbery or superiority? Get real. It's common sense. Aside from being a waste of bandwidth, lazy posting accomplishes absolutely nothing since more than one response/opinion for each mattress mentioned really is needed. So an OP then has to weigh the responses/opinions, then will go back into the forum anyway for more info. That's bassackwards. Do the very basic preliminary research, then ask more focused questions, and everyone wins.