Copied from another thread so sjeanine's journey was easier to follow instead of mixed in with other stuff....
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OK, So I'm going to work with "rectangle with a dip in the middle" construction:) Here's what I'm thinking from your experiences. You really liked the Opulance and the Bastogne which are both microcoils in a pillowtop. Microcoils are made to be very soft and conforming (unlike the "support springs in a mattress) and would feel in their own way similar to softer latex where you have a feeling of "supportive softness" in the top layers. They would both give you a sense that the mattress was conforming to your shape and being supportive at the same time. You also liked the Reve better than others and it is softer than others you tried but the top softer part is probably too thick which is why you were "out of alignment". You also liked the Aspen better than the Snowmass which again confirms that a softer talalay which conforms to you and relieves pressure is what we're after. Some of your other feedback confirms this as well. You were also mentioning that you felt good on the Aspen but then your back started to hurt. This tells me that the combination of 2" of softer talalay over 1" super soft poly over another 4" of medium talalay lets you sink in too far. It was good for side pressure relief but not so good on your back. You were probably hyperextending your lower back as your lower body would sink in too far in this position. Your experience with the Dormia and Tempurpedic says once again that you need pressure relief but that sinking in too far (a tendency of memory foams and particular the less expensive ones with less dense foam like the Dormia) is not good for you. You need reasonable support for your weight under your comfort layer but not so firm that it causes pressure issues if you go through the top layer a bit. Because you are not at the place where you know exactly the specific ILD's that you would need in a mattress ... I believe that your best option is to make your own with a layered approach rather than a custom built manufactured approach which would not let you change it afterwards at a reasonable cost if any shipping was involved. So here are your options as I see them. 1. PHONE L & W and ask them if they could make you a mattress with a 32 ILD 6 " core with 2" of 22 ILD latex above that with a quilted cotton cover with some wool in it and ask them what it would cost. Then ask them if they could do the same thing wih 3" of latex above the core and get the price for that as well. Make it clear that you are close to a final decision and you are looking at your final options. Then ask them if you are able to do any kind of a comfort exchange and if so what would it cost you. 2. PHONE Lebeda and ask them the same things as you did with L & W. (both 2" and 3" over a 6" core). At this point it doesn't matter if they can make it EXACTLY like this ... we are more interested in their price for the type of construction you are looking at so if they could do something very similar, get the price for that. You have several options for either an 8" or 9" layered latex mattress and they would all be in the range of what you would need. The cost in a queen would be from around $1000 to around $1600 at the high end and the high end would only be because you chose all natural Talalay which adds a bit to the cost. There are even some options that we could go a fair bit less than this if we need to. Of course you also need a foundation (not a boxspring) to put your mattress on then that would add a bit to the overall cost as well. You have several options here as well including buying an inexpensive one from wherever you buy your mattress from. If your SO really did like the adjustable bed then this would be a lot more than a foundation and would put you over your budget.... but he may decide he likes the idea anyway (laughing). In any case, let me know if you have a foundation (the floor would be OK for the short term but not long term as your mattress would have trouble breathing), and also let me know the result of your two phone calls to L&W and Lebeda. Then we look at online options and choose whatever is best for you. We are almost there :) Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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Phoenix,
Hi I just got home and wanted to let you know what I've found out so far, since I will be having to leave again shortly and wont be able to report anything until later this evening or tomorrow. I am still waiting to hear back from John, from L&W Mattress but, I have heard back from Lebeda and I want to say this, I would not buy a mattress from the Moline Lebeda store now unless Barb, the manager, is no longer there! This woman sounded like a demon when I called today about the mattress costs! She was so mean and nasty sounding and she acted mad that you had called there in my behalf. She said you had and I said, "yes, that is fine; he is helping me." She did not like that at all!!! Her voice was very nasty and as I was asking her about a price quote, she told me that it was going to be very expensive and probably not what I'd want, how it wouldnt prob meet firecodes, etc.... I suddenly realized, as I was reading (to myself) your reply above, which I had printed out and taken with me, that the specs were almost exactly what the salesman there, Ray, had checked on for me last week. He was very knowledgeable and nice and made a quick phone call and told me that they could make a mattress like the one they had on the floor, with 6 inches of a core latex, 33 ILD and put a 2 in 22 ILD latex on top for no additional charge of what their 100% 6" latex bed was...I think it was $1500. But, he'd said it would not include the 30 day return or exchange...only the normal warranty and only on one side. So.....when I suddenly remembered I'd already had this quote given to me, and this woman was being very rude and nasty anyway, I just said, "You know what? I just realized I was already quoted a price from Ray on this set last week." She got even madder and said, "Well, I'm the manager, not Ray and you didnt go thru me!" I ask you, Phoenix, why would that matter??? So, I went on and repeated what I wanted because she just went off on a rampage and kept repeating herself about being the manager and me needing to go thru her... This woman just kept butting in and interrupting me while I was trying to tell her what I wanted and just kept saying, "it's going to be really expensive, probably wont meet the fire code and you should've talked to me cuz I'm the manager and what Ray told you didnt matter since it didnt go thru me!!" She practically hung the phone up on me and I didnt even get out that I wanted a quilted cotton cover with some wool in it..but, I do remember telling Ray that last week. Barb called me back after a bit and quoted me a price that was higher than the original price that they told Ray it would be....Ray said they told him there'd be no extra charge for doing all that....now it's about two hundred dollars higher...coming from her. I told her thank you and that I'd get back with her and she just slammed the phone down on me. Then I tried to call L & W back since they'd tried and left a msg while I was talking to her. Unfortunately, I was driving at the time and I asked my son to call back the last number that I missed and he somehow recalled Lebeda....OMG!! This woman about went thru the phone when I asked for John at L & W! She said angrily, "This is LEBEDA!!!!" Lol....and I just said, "Oh, sorry, I called the wrong number" and hung up before she could say another word! Wow! I sure will be glad when we get all done with this. What a learning experience! When I did call John back at L & W, he was soooo nice and told me he'd get back with me and that he could make me whatever I wanted and he could do it two sided so that I could flip it if I wanted. He said he always makes his mattresses two sided cuz he felt all mattresses should be able to be flipped. He just said he wasnt sure if he could get a 22 ILD from Latex International so he needed to get hold of them first before quoting me a price. So, I'll write again when I get more info.... This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by sjeanine
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Wow ... is that ever bizarre ... especially considering that you are down to knowing close to what you want and were looking for a quote. That's usually when people become very friendly and try to do their best for you. Oh well, it doesn't matter in the end if either of them can give you a good quote since there are so many online options who can ... it's just nice sometimes if you can get the same benefits locally. I think it's safe to rule them out. Funny too ... when I was calling a lot of manufacturers looking for prices on a rough configuration, they quoted me $1399 for 6 + 2 although I didn't specify any ILD's or other details. I'll wait until you hear from L&W and then we can look at a few other options and compare them so you can make some final decisions and order a mattress :) Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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Oh, I forgot to mention that I did find out (via internet search) that Lebeda buys their latex from Carthage, Missouri. And, if you think that is the route we should go, I guess I could try and go back when Ray is there or go to the Davenport, IA store...it's just a few miles away from Moline, IL. Originally, Ray said they could just build it for $1500....just no 30 day comfort exchange and only on one side. This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by sjeanine
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They get their springs from Leggett & Platt which is in Carthage Missouri, their latex would come either from Latex International or through a distributor who buys from Latex International. What L&W said is correct ... expecially with Natural Talalay, not quite so much with their blend. Some manufacturers are able to specify their ILD more closely. They are too expensive anyway so I agree with you that is not your best option. That leaves us with what was likely to be your best bet all along, an online layered make your own. We have enough information now that you can probably get very close to your best configuration and if for any reason you need to change it, then exchanging a layer is very inexpensive. A 6" core with a 2" - 3" comfort layer would be your best option. You are somewhat sensitive to sinking in too deep which is why I suggested a core in the range of 32 ILD which for your weight would provide plenty of support. This range would be a medium in most places. The advantages of a 2" layer on top of this is that again you wouldn't sink in too far before you were being supported by the core and this would probably give you your best alignment. The disadvantage is that some people would "go through" 2" and feel slight pressure from the firmer layer underneath. I am one of these but my weight and body makeup is much different from yours so I think 2" would be fine for you. The second advantage is that 2" is slightly less expensive than 3". A wool quilting in the ticking (cover) would also lessen how far you sank into the mattress and most are available with this. The advantages of a 3" layer on top of this is that it may feel a little softer and possibly conform a little better with less chance of you going through to a slightly firmer layer. It is unlikely that 3" in an appropriate ILD would put your spine out of alignment but if it did, then exchanging the top layer for one that is slightly firmer or changing layers would likely solve this. This may also be a little better for your SO who is slightly heavier than you are however having said that, he is not so heavy either and from what you said doesn't have bony hips so 2" would probably be fine for him too. The disadvantage of 3" is that it would cost a little more. There are other options as far as construction as well but when you purchase in layers, it is fairly easy and inexpensive to exchange layers. Before we go to specific suggestions and options ... do you already have a foundation to put the mattress on. If not, then we should take this into account for your budget as well. Would you prefer basic foundation or is your SO seriously thinking about an adjustable bed (you don't need it to "sleep better" as the "salesman" suggested so don't take that into consideration). They are really a luxury ... but a nice one ... unless someone has a specific medical need for them. Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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No, my SO is fine with whatever I pick....and, we dont need the extra expense of anything unnecessary. He's fine with it....just liked playing with it in the store I think. Lol Oh, yeah, we'd need a foundation. We are currently on a full size box spring mattress and metal frame. I dont think the metal frame will make into a queen size. |
OK, here are what I believe are your best options. I would take a look at these websites and what I have written and then decide which one you like the best. They are all a little different but i don't think you would go wrong with any of them. They all represent great value and all the prices are for queen siz, include shipping, and include any discounts I know about. MATTRESS OPTIONS http://www.mattresses.net/queen-adjustable-ultra-plush-latex-sleep-system.html Adjustable ultra plush sleep system $1076.42 This one is 6" of Talalay with 2" of Talalay on top with a very nice zippered wool and cotton quilt cover. The top is always soft latex (around the 22 we talked about) and the bottom can be any choice from softer to firmer that he has (28, 33, or 38 ILD). You can also make half the bed softer and the other half firmer (say 28 one side and 33 for the other) If for some reason you make a mistake, you can ship the 6" core back (would cost you about $80) and they would ship you out either a firmer one or a softer one at their cost. They can also customize the mattress if you choose by adding another 2" soft latex on top for an additional $200 or so plus a small extra shipping charge although I wouldn't recommend this in your case (4" of soft latex would probably be too much). This price is with their current special coupon which they will email to you if you request it. http://www.sleepez.com/catalog/product_info.php/products_id/108 Sleep EZ 8" special $995.00 This one is 3" + 3" of Dunlop with 2" of Talalay on top with a cotton zippered cover with no wool. You can customize the firmness of each layer and in your case I would probably suggest firm on the bottom, then medium, then soft. You can exchange any layer for a softer or firmer one within 90 days for a total cost of $30 ($15 shipping each way). The Dunlop is a little firmer than the Talalay (not quite as "springy") but also high quality latex and you would be laying on the Talalay. http://www.myluxurymattress.com/product3073.html#learnmore 9" Aristocrat latex mattress $1139.05 This one is 6" of natural Talalay with 3" on top so it has a total of 9" in it. I would suggest if you were to choose this one that you get the plush (24 ILD over 32 ILD). It has a cotton cover but with no zipper (you can't just exchange a layer). If you need a firmer core then you have 120 days to exchange it for a firmer one (this is the softest top and core they have) and they will pay for the shipping both ways. Natural latex is more expensive but in softer ILD's many people believe it is slightly less long lasting. The difference in durability for 24 ILD top is not likely to be that much and all forms of latex will last longer than most other foams. http://www.mygreenmattress.com/view_products/naturalescape.htm Natural Escape mattress $1424.00 This one is a little different from the others. Instead of a mattress that has to be used with a certain side up, this one is 2 sided and can be "flipped". It has a 5" core of blended Talalay latex and then 2" of natural Talalay latex on either side for a total of 9" of latex. It also has a very nice wool and cotton quilted cover (no zipper) but because it is 2 sided this quilting is on both sides as well. If for some reason you need to exchange it for something firmer (this one is the softest) then you can do so for $150 shipping ($75 each way). They would arrange for shipping the mattress each way. The price here is with their current special where they upgrade their one sided mattress to 2 sided for free. The advantage of being able to flip a mattress is that you give each side a chance to "rest" a bit and it will slightly extend the life of the mattress. http://latexmattressshop.com/index.php/comfort-level/allure-latex-plush Allure plush top mattress $989.10 This one is is 6" Dunlop latex with 2" Dunlop latex on top and then it has the nicest cover of all of them all with wool, cotton, and quilted latex in the cover. It is non zippered. You have your choice of soft medium or firm feel and again I would choose soft in your case. While soft latex is usually a little firmer than soft talalay with the same ILD, it has 7 zones which would make it a bit softer feeling and the extra quilted latex in the quilting would also add to the softness so it would be roughly equivalent to the others. You can't exchange just a layer with this one so if you're not happy with it you would have to send the whole mattress back but they would pay for the shipping both ways so it woldn't cost you anything. The price here is with a 10% coupon which they will give you if you subscribe to their email here. http://www.customsleepdesign.com/ Waiting for a call back from him to see if he will make an 8" or 9" mattresses and what it would cost. Usually he makes them thicker (11") which while he has great value would put them out of your budget. I do like very much how he makes and customizes his mattresses and the zoning he uses so he would also be well worth talking to if he can make them a little thinner. I left him a message to ask him but he's probably gone home for the day so hopefully he'll call me back tomorrow. Added: I received a call back from customsleep design and he does make mattresses that are 9" in width. What he does in this case is use a firmer 4" base instead of the 6" base. This would put him in the upper end of your range "in the neighborhood" of mygreenmattress and he would be well worth talking to as his mattress construction is more tailored to individual body makeup than the others and represents great value as well, epsecially for those who have difficulty "getting it right" with more typical layered or zoning approaches. The price would depend on your choice of materials (type of latex) and construction and you have a 90 day layer exchange to adjust things if you need to. There would be no sales tax on any of these except mygreenmattress which is in Illinois (la grange) so they would have to charge you being in the same state. If you shipped it to somewhere in Iowa then there would be no tax. I'm assuming that Illinois has a sales tax which I don't know for sure. FOUNDATION OPTIONS To order a standard slatted foundation separately I would use either mattresses.net for $257.25 including shipping or Sleepez which is $260 including shipping. If you order your mattress from latexmattressshop, then I would also order your foundation from them as they give you an extra 5% off your order if you do and it would only cost an extra $202.50 If you order your mattress from mygreen mattress, then I would order your foundation from them. They have a wooden one similar to the above which they told me would cost you an extra $129 or a stronger wooden and steel one which would cost you an extra $179. They said they would do this (a little over $100 off the regular cost) because you were close by and the shipping wouldn't be as much as other places. I should also mention that Ikea http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/categories/departments/bedroom/10635/ carries some very interesting and low cost slatted mattress bases that can be adjusted both to increase firmness or softness in certain parts of your mattress and in some cases can raise and lower the head and foot areas as well like a traditional adjustable bed. Even their adjustable models are less than most slatted foundations. I have seen a few comments that they are not as strong as others but aside from this possibility I think they offer great value. They do have a 25 year limited warranty if they do break. Your total price for both a mattress and foundation ranges from $1191.60 (mattress and foundation from latexmattressshop) up to $1603 (2 sided mattress and their strongest foundation from mygreenmattress but this excludes tax). The Ikea foundations would of course reduce this range. Now comes the fun part of deciding which one but at least there is no more trips and all of these are great choices IMO. If you have any questions just post them here. Phoenix This message was modified Nov 24, 2010 by Phoenix
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I forgot to mention that I am allergic to lanolin and silicone....should I be concerned about that with purchasing any of the mattresses posted? I just realized that some, or maybe most of the latex mattresses come in two pieces?? Wouldnt that cause a dip in the middle, eventually, if not right away, if you slept or rolled to the center of the bed? I like the idea of the 7 zones on the Allure plush top mattress but a little worried about if the Dunlop would feel to firm to me. I also like that they have free shipping if you need to return it....as well as the 10% off coupon. I also liked the 9" Aristocrat cuz you get 9" of course of the Talalay latex and I love the idea you get 4 mths to decide if it's right for you in firmness...and, they will pay for the shipping both ways! But, I read on another post that someone said natural latex only lasts about 10 years before breaking down...is that true? Should I be looking at a blend or the Dunlop instead of any of the Talalay? I liked the adjustable ultra plush sleep system cuz of the all Talalay and being able to customize both sides but a bit pricey if you need to return a layer....do you know how many times you can do this with any that say you can exchange them?? Thanks for all your work and and advice! ; ) sjeanine P.S. Ok, after showing all the info you posted to my SO we think we have decided to go with the Allure plush top mattress from the Latex Mattress shop. Do you know what their warranty is? Do you think this is a good choice? I am wondering what the ILD is of it and if it's one big piece, not layers, how it's put together and/or would arrive. I guess I can email them but was wondering if you knew already. Do you think this is a good choice? I'm just a little bit nervous tht it could be to firm...even with the soft. Wish I could try this out first! Oh, what to do..... P.S.S. Should I be looking at slatted wood foundation or spring foundation? Is there an advantage of one over the other with latex mattresses? Thanks again. This message was modified Nov 23, 2010 by sjeanine
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