Copied from another thread so sjeanine's journey was easier to follow instead of mixed in with other stuff....
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OK, it is pretty clear to me in general what you like and need. I just need to know or confirm a couple of things before I go into more details. What is the size of mattress you would prefer. What is the mid point of your budget (the amount you would like to stay under but that you would consider going over if you found something that was "special" at a great price? Phoenix |
We're looking for a Queen size...We have a full right now and our room is to small for a King but a Queen would be a great upgrade. We're hoping to find something around $1200-1500...under would be great...over would not be so great but, if it's a really great mattress we'd prob go over a little...thanks for your help! ; ) |
OK ... one last question before I post some of my thoughts. How would you describe your (both of you) weight distribution and body shape. Are either of you narrow waisted with much wider hips and shoulders (like an hourglass), wider and/or heavier in the hips (like a pear point up), wider and heavier in the shoulders (pear point down), or more evenly proportioned (shoulder and hips not so much wider than waist or more like a rectangle with a smaller dip in the middle), or "other" (in which case please describe). Phoenix This message was modified Nov 21, 2010 by Phoenix
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OK, So I'm going to work with "rectangle with a dip in the middle" construction:) Here's what I'm thinking from your experiences. You really liked the Opulance and the Bastogne which are both microcoils in a pillowtop. Microcoils are made to be very soft and conforming (unlike the "support springs in a mattress) and would feel in their own way similar to softer latex where you have a feeling of "supportive softness" in the top layers. They would both give you a sense that the mattress was conforming to your shape and being supportive at the same time. You also liked the Reve better than others and it is softer than others you tried but the top softer part is probably too thick which is why you were "out of alignment". You also liked the Aspen better than the Snowmass which again confirms that a softer talalay which conforms to you and relieves pressure is what we're after. Some of your other feedback confirms this as well. You were also mentioning that you felt good on the Aspen but then your back started to hurt. This tells me that the combination of 2" of softer talalay over 1" super soft poly over another 4" of medium talalay lets you sink in too far. It was good for side pressure relief but not so good on your back. You were probably hyperextending your lower back as your lower body would sink in too far in this position. Your experience with the Dormia and Tempurpedic says once again that you need pressure relief but that sinking in too far (a tendency of memory foams and particular the less expensive ones with less dense foam like the Dormia) is not good for you. You need reasonable support for your weight under your comfort layer but not so firm that it causes pressure issues if you go through the top layer a bit. Because you are not at the place where you know exactly the specific ILD's that you would need in a mattress ... I believe that your best option is to make your own with a layered approach rather than a custom built manufactured approach which would not let you change it afterwards at a reasonable cost if any shipping was involved. So here are your options as I see them. 1. PHONE L & W and ask them if they could make you a mattress with a 32 ILD 6 " core with 2" of 22 ILD latex above that with a quilted cotton cover with some wool in it and ask them what it would cost. Then ask them if they could do the same thing wih 3" of latex above the core and get the price for that as well. Make it clear that you are close to a final decision and you are looking at your final options. Then ask them if you are able to do any kind of a comfort exchange and if so what would it cost you. 2. PHONE Lebeda and ask them the same things as you did with L & W. (both 2" and 3" over a 6" core). At this point it doesn't matter if they can make it EXACTLY like this ... we are more interested in their price for the type of construction you are looking at so if they could do something very similar, get the price for that. You have several options for either an 8" or 9" layered latex mattress and they would all be in the range of what you would need. The cost in a queen would be from around $1000 to around $1600 at the high end and the high end would only be because you chose all natural Talalay which adds a bit to the cost. There are even some options that we could go a fair bit less than this if we need to. Of course you also need a foundation (not a boxspring) to put your mattress on then that would add a bit to the overall cost as well. You have several options here as well including buying an inexpensive one from wherever you buy your mattress from. If your SO really did like the adjustable bed then this would be a lot more than a foundation and would put you over your budget.... but he may decide he likes the idea anyway (laughing). In any case, let me know if you have a foundation (the floor would be OK for the short term but not long term as your mattress would have trouble breathing), and also let me know the result of your two phone calls to L&W and Lebeda. Then we look at online options and choose whatever is best for you. We are almost there :) Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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Phoenix,
Hi I just got home and wanted to let you know what I've found out so far, since I will be having to leave again shortly and wont be able to report anything until later this evening or tomorrow. I am still waiting to hear back from John, from L&W Mattress but, I have heard back from Lebeda and I want to say this, I would not buy a mattress from the Moline Lebeda store now unless Barb, the manager, is no longer there! This woman sounded like a demon when I called today about the mattress costs! She was so mean and nasty sounding and she acted mad that you had called there in my behalf. She said you had and I said, "yes, that is fine; he is helping me." She did not like that at all!!! Her voice was very nasty and as I was asking her about a price quote, she told me that it was going to be very expensive and probably not what I'd want, how it wouldnt prob meet firecodes, etc.... I suddenly realized, as I was reading (to myself) your reply above, which I had printed out and taken with me, that the specs were almost exactly what the salesman there, Ray, had checked on for me last week. He was very knowledgeable and nice and made a quick phone call and told me that they could make a mattress like the one they had on the floor, with 6 inches of a core latex, 33 ILD and put a 2 in 22 ILD latex on top for no additional charge of what their 100% 6" latex bed was...I think it was $1500. But, he'd said it would not include the 30 day return or exchange...only the normal warranty and only on one side. So.....when I suddenly remembered I'd already had this quote given to me, and this woman was being very rude and nasty anyway, I just said, "You know what? I just realized I was already quoted a price from Ray on this set last week." She got even madder and said, "Well, I'm the manager, not Ray and you didnt go thru me!" I ask you, Phoenix, why would that matter??? So, I went on and repeated what I wanted because she just went off on a rampage and kept repeating herself about being the manager and me needing to go thru her... This woman just kept butting in and interrupting me while I was trying to tell her what I wanted and just kept saying, "it's going to be really expensive, probably wont meet the fire code and you should've talked to me cuz I'm the manager and what Ray told you didnt matter since it didnt go thru me!!" She practically hung the phone up on me and I didnt even get out that I wanted a quilted cotton cover with some wool in it..but, I do remember telling Ray that last week. Barb called me back after a bit and quoted me a price that was higher than the original price that they told Ray it would be....Ray said they told him there'd be no extra charge for doing all that....now it's about two hundred dollars higher...coming from her. I told her thank you and that I'd get back with her and she just slammed the phone down on me. Then I tried to call L & W back since they'd tried and left a msg while I was talking to her. Unfortunately, I was driving at the time and I asked my son to call back the last number that I missed and he somehow recalled Lebeda....OMG!! This woman about went thru the phone when I asked for John at L & W! She said angrily, "This is LEBEDA!!!!" Lol....and I just said, "Oh, sorry, I called the wrong number" and hung up before she could say another word! Wow! I sure will be glad when we get all done with this. What a learning experience! When I did call John back at L & W, he was soooo nice and told me he'd get back with me and that he could make me whatever I wanted and he could do it two sided so that I could flip it if I wanted. He said he always makes his mattresses two sided cuz he felt all mattresses should be able to be flipped. He just said he wasnt sure if he could get a 22 ILD from Latex International so he needed to get hold of them first before quoting me a price. So, I'll write again when I get more info.... This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by sjeanine
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Wow ... is that ever bizarre ... especially considering that you are down to knowing close to what you want and were looking for a quote. That's usually when people become very friendly and try to do their best for you. Oh well, it doesn't matter in the end if either of them can give you a good quote since there are so many online options who can ... it's just nice sometimes if you can get the same benefits locally. I think it's safe to rule them out. Funny too ... when I was calling a lot of manufacturers looking for prices on a rough configuration, they quoted me $1399 for 6 + 2 although I didn't specify any ILD's or other details. I'll wait until you hear from L&W and then we can look at a few other options and compare them so you can make some final decisions and order a mattress :) Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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Oh, I forgot to mention that I did find out (via internet search) that Lebeda buys their latex from Carthage, Missouri. And, if you think that is the route we should go, I guess I could try and go back when Ray is there or go to the Davenport, IA store...it's just a few miles away from Moline, IL. Originally, Ray said they could just build it for $1500....just no 30 day comfort exchange and only on one side. This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by sjeanine
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They get their springs from Leggett & Platt which is in Carthage Missouri, their latex would come either from Latex International or through a distributor who buys from Latex International. What L&W said is correct ... expecially with Natural Talalay, not quite so much with their blend. Some manufacturers are able to specify their ILD more closely. They are too expensive anyway so I agree with you that is not your best option. That leaves us with what was likely to be your best bet all along, an online layered make your own. We have enough information now that you can probably get very close to your best configuration and if for any reason you need to change it, then exchanging a layer is very inexpensive. A 6" core with a 2" - 3" comfort layer would be your best option. You are somewhat sensitive to sinking in too deep which is why I suggested a core in the range of 32 ILD which for your weight would provide plenty of support. This range would be a medium in most places. The advantages of a 2" layer on top of this is that again you wouldn't sink in too far before you were being supported by the core and this would probably give you your best alignment. The disadvantage is that some people would "go through" 2" and feel slight pressure from the firmer layer underneath. I am one of these but my weight and body makeup is much different from yours so I think 2" would be fine for you. The second advantage is that 2" is slightly less expensive than 3". A wool quilting in the ticking (cover) would also lessen how far you sank into the mattress and most are available with this. The advantages of a 3" layer on top of this is that it may feel a little softer and possibly conform a little better with less chance of you going through to a slightly firmer layer. It is unlikely that 3" in an appropriate ILD would put your spine out of alignment but if it did, then exchanging the top layer for one that is slightly firmer or changing layers would likely solve this. This may also be a little better for your SO who is slightly heavier than you are however having said that, he is not so heavy either and from what you said doesn't have bony hips so 2" would probably be fine for him too. The disadvantage of 3" is that it would cost a little more. There are other options as far as construction as well but when you purchase in layers, it is fairly easy and inexpensive to exchange layers. Before we go to specific suggestions and options ... do you already have a foundation to put the mattress on. If not, then we should take this into account for your budget as well. Would you prefer basic foundation or is your SO seriously thinking about an adjustable bed (you don't need it to "sleep better" as the "salesman" suggested so don't take that into consideration). They are really a luxury ... but a nice one ... unless someone has a specific medical need for them. Phoenix This message was modified Nov 22, 2010 by Phoenix
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No, my SO is fine with whatever I pick....and, we dont need the extra expense of anything unnecessary. He's fine with it....just liked playing with it in the store I think. Lol Oh, yeah, we'd need a foundation. We are currently on a full size box spring mattress and metal frame. I dont think the metal frame will make into a queen size. |